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originally posted by: Finspiracy
eletheia said very well here. I hope OP follows this advice. But i am currently drinking to suppress pain, so hard to preach. I have been in that situation. Broke up with a woman, we lived together. And i drank and i drank and i drank. I am never violent or even arrogant, but i mess myself up physically and mentally to a very low level. I don't want that to happen to you OP.
originally posted by: Saiker
Well, the wife and I are talking of hanging it up. It's been tough and she's not in the wrong it's all on me. I'm a bad guy really I am. Ive hid who I am for many years and I expected her to ignore it. Hell, my denial is so strong I even deny as I type. We haven't had a good day in years and it's my fault. Trying to do the right thing cause that's been taught has led us to years of misery. I used to think i might be gay then i thought i was bi then straight then tranny. Hell, I don't know anymore, but ide like to thank all the bible thumpers and know it alls that pass judgement on a daily basis for ruining my life and keeping me lost for so many years. Even now I'm in denial cause I was brought up that its wrong and I'm supposed to do what the good book says. That feeling I get is the devil dammit.
Take a shot of Jim with me and that's a drink not a guy lol
originally posted by: KTemplar
a reply to: Saiker
I have a cousin who was married with children for over 20 years; he finally came out and that wasn’t easy being he grew up Catholic.
At first the family was shocked and all whispers. My sister and I gave him a great big hug at our family reunion and sat with him and his new spouse. I am Catholic, but I believe as long as we love others and don’t hurt others than that is all that matters. Not being true to yourself hurts everyone involved.
Like another poster stated if Jesus was standing in front of you right now he would hug you and love you unconditionally.
You always lose with Mr Booze, take it easy with that and NO driving. Best of Luck in your future endeavors.
originally posted by: KTemplar
a reply to: BigDave-AR
Sorry you are going thru that BigDave. I’ve never been a big fan of fanaticism in Religion, I take the pearls from different types, for example I really admired the Mormons I met while I lived in AZ, I like certain aspects of Buddhism, etc. I hope you’re grandfather softens his stance on this. If not, don’t worry, God loves us all!
originally posted by: Saiker
a reply to: BigDave-AR
yep been listenin too it all night
drink up
originally posted by: Saiker
a reply to: Onlyyouknow
Yeah we got one boy he means the world to the both of us. I make love often to her but she doesnt make me content and she knows it.