I love my wife

They say the third time is the cherm. I couldn't possibly by the most remote
imagination disagree. I knew we we're meant to be before we met or I even
saw you. And you yourself know it's the truth.



The humor we share is unmatched by any marriage I've ever known outside of ours.
The confidence we have in our relationship is boundless. I can't imagine a more
perfect person on this planet for me than you. And the kicker? I know you feel
the same.

I love you baby!

a reply to: randyvs

Do you think I will ever get back my half of the $30,000 my first wife emptied our shared checking account?

originally posted by: dfnj2015
a reply to: randyvs

Do you think I will ever get back my half of the $30,000 my first wife emptied our shared checking account?

My friend all I can say is

oh sh1t!

originally posted by: dfnj2015
a reply to: randyvs

Do you think I will ever get back my half of the $30,000 my first wife emptied our shared checking account?

Tossing the empty baggie in the trash, meathead reads the verdict"The magic 8 ball says -not likely-."





Respectfully,
~meathead

a reply to: Mike Stivic

Wow Mike I was contemplating the 8 ball method myself!

a reply to: dfnj2015

our shared checking account?

Oh Lord, I've heard many horror stories.

a reply to: slapjacks

Slap your best one down Jack. After all this is the place!

originally posted by: dfnj2015
a reply to: randyvs

Do you think I will ever get back my half of the $30,000 my first wife emptied our shared checking account?

.
That, my friend, was the price of freedom.

A good woman to have your back (and you got hers) is the biggest blessing I can think of.

Life is rough sometimes, somebody to help you through those rough times is worth more than gold.

Married mine when I was 21. Seventeen years later and somehow I love her more than I thought possible the longer I'm with her.

Trueman,

You hit the nail on the head!

Its like that old chaz palmentari (sp) movie "a Bronx Tale". When the mob boss scolds C for trying to chase down the kid who owed him money.

Also another little lesson in that movie was the "door test" . Where when you pick up your date you lock all the doors of the car before you walk up to the porch.
When you go back to the car you unlock her door and close it for her after she gets in.

When you walk around the car watch to see if she leans over to unlock your door for you.. if she doesn't dump her. If she does she is a keeper..

I have a feeling dfnj did not do the door test...


Respectfully,
~meathead

a reply to: Cancerwarrior

Aug 25th just before 911. If it weren't for her, I wouldn't be making this post.

a reply to: randyvs

Sorry for the thread drift my friend.

I really am happy for you,there really is nothing better than waking up every morning laying beside the one you love.

Having that bond,trust,compassion and,devotion be mutual and really know it in your heart is not only beautiful but magical as well!

If you have the time I'd love to hear how your relationship blossomed out of that tragic event.

Respectfully,
~meathead

a reply to: Mike Stivic

As I related to without detail, it's rather hard to explain but I was left
waiting for a friend of mine outside her apartment way back in 95.
The feeling I had as I waited was that there was someone in there
I needed to meet. But it was more than a feeling, subjectively of
course.



I left that day only knowing the person I was with. But soon after
that by no venture of my own. I met the guy she was with at the time.
We became good friends and we still are good friends today. The rest
is easy.

Fate is a funny animal.

The way it bends and contorts to achieve its goals while working against yet in tandem with our free will.



Respectfully,
~meathead

originally posted by: Mike Stivic
Fate is a funny animal.

The way it bends and contorts to achieve its goals while working against yet in tandem with our free will.



Respectfully,
~meathead

That among so many other descriptions is very accurate I would say.

originally posted by: dfnj2015
a reply to: randyvs

Do you think I will ever get back my half of the $30,000 my first wife emptied our shared checking account?

You got off light actually, but I feel you brother.

Not posting what I lost in 2008. smh


But even with a beating like that I still was able to find someone to share my life with again.

randyvs good on you for showing love again, life is to short.

a reply to: Realtruth

The true test of our character is if we are able to smile thru the ruff n tuff.
It's not always possible in the immediate. But as long as it doesn't suck
away a beautiful smile forever? I believe that's what counts.

I love my exwives more now than when we were married. Still friends and lovers without the control issues.

I was told that your first couple marriages are just practice.

a reply to: olaru12

I would condone that as a philosophy.

Where can I find one of these "wife"?

a reply to: randyvs