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originally posted by: Reverbs
a reply to: new_here
When a girl openly hits on me
Like tries to kiss me..
it's not like oh by the way... I have a girlfriend..
Like maybe I'm on my phone texting her.
originally posted by: Sillyolme
a reply to: AmericanRealist
As a store owner and female retail sales associate I can promise you that professionalism and product knowledge closed a lot more sales than flirting. And if your customer is part of pa couple a girl flirting with the male will put an end to the transaction faster than a fire alarm.
And I find the way you use women a bit offensive. And the women letting themselves be used in this manner has me scratching my head.
originally posted by: new_here
Haha, ok. But I have had a guy 'suspiciously' bring up wife/girlfriend in a way that made me re-examine how I came across.
You probably have a more sexual vibe.
You can feel the energy in the air.
originally posted by: Blue_Jay33
So almost anytime I meet a woman either professionally or causally, within the first three sentences they feel the need to somehow work into the conversation that they have a boyfriend or a husband,
originally posted by: VegHead
It's a preemptive move ... It's meant to spare the guy hurt feelings or embarrassment. Let him know you aren't available romantically right off the bat.
My husband tells me I'm really good at this particular social move.