Why don't us men put a cap on it?.

Yeah loads of anti abortion threads and loads blaming women but come on guys it takes two to make a baby we can be the one who makes sure we don't have any unwanted pregnancies also.
Here is a bright young womans answers to someone who doesn't like using a condom.



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Anyhow lets not bicker why not come up with solutions? 50% of the problem is us men are not practising safe sex lets not forget it eh?.

a reply to: boymonkey74

I hate it when some men spread their seed and don't take care of whatever grows from it. It makes the rest of us look bad. I make sure I use one. I'm paranoid about diseases, too. You can't be too careful.

I think it comes down to consent. Some lady doesn't have to do anything if she dont want too, if the guy she's trying to nail dont have a condom, she does not have to have sex with him, if she does anyways then so what, its a choice they both made.

a reply to: boymonkey74
The "no glove, no love" phrase always seemed to work in the past….

a reply to: Skid Mark

Yup had it banged into me at a young age to use one because my Uncle caught AIDs in the early 80's .
He made me watch a couple of documentary about safe sex and told me he wished he had listened.
Scared me rotten but worked.

Condoms aren't "sexy", but like that girl's answers, neither are babies! It's just too easy to wrap it up and prevent crap! Too easy, and people totally disregard it. Also, too many kids are ignorant of safe sex, even with schools educating about it. It is up to the parents to educate, but many don't. My own parents never talked to me about it. Thank goodness for what I did learn in school.

It's like having a shower in a rain coat...

No you are right. AIDS kills don't be silly get that condom on your willy

A lot of people are immature. You know, that personal responsibility thing a lot us conservative complain about. I always strapped up until I was married and financially able to take care of a child.

It takes two to tango. However, it is ultimately the woman's responsibility because she is the one who has to carry the child and will most likely be stuck caring for it.

a reply to: boymonkey74

I love you, young primate lad.

So many people, especially many conservative, anti-choice men, blame the woman exclusively when a pregnancy occurs, when it's no more her fault than it is his! She didn't do it on her own! He can disappear, and many times he does. But the woman is ultimately responsible for making the choice of what to do about it. And not only do they blame her, they CONDEMN her if she chooses to have an abortion and "opt out" of parenthood.

They say, if you don't want a baby, then keep your legs closed... That goes both ways, though, guys. Men, if you don't want a baby, OR you don't want your baby to be aborted, then keep it in your pants!

Condoms and other birth control methods (which interestingly, many of these same men are against) are the best way to protect BOTH of you against STDs, babies and abortions.

If you don't want a baby or to be party to an abortion, exercise some personal responsibility!

Even the tests to see if you have an STD are gruesome,let alone the diseases themselves...that little umbrella thing-no thanks,I'm in the better safe than sorry camp.
That and I couldn't afford to support a child,and certainly don't want one raised on welfare.

I haven't used a condom in 17 years, one child and no diseases. It's all fear mongering as you can tell in the stupid girls answers. Get a clue and don't bang whores you pick up at a bar.

Even the new age "real feel" condoms are crap...
They don't feel "real" at all...

But I'm not in the right frame of mind to care for a child, so it's better than nothing.


I think mine are swimming backwards anyways...
Or I've just been very lucky in the past.

I should get checked up on that side of things I guess.

a reply to: boymonkey74
OMG! You're not promoting responsibility, are you? Where's the fun in that?

a reply to: CharlieSpeirs

The male contraception pill or an implant maybe? I would go for that also.
Not sure many men will though especially younger ones lol.

a reply to: CharlieSpeirs
I'm pretty sterile these days. I did go and get them stored a few years ago. I imagine they will be used to start life and create a master race after the apocalypse

a reply to: woodwardjnr

I'm gonna send my dna to the moon when the UK crowd fund the moon probe launches so Aliens in a billion years or the new cat people of earth can make me again .

Just chuck one over the thumb, it's less of a headache. Free internet porn, what do you want...

originally posted by: buellmph
I haven't used a condom in 17 years, one child and no diseases. It's all fear mongering as you can tell in the stupid girls answers. Get a clue and don't bang whores you pick up at a bar.

Well! I guess all the talk about the spread of STDs, unwanted pregnancies and abortion is all a bunch of crap because YOUR experience is surely exactly like everyone else's! Right?

originally posted by: boymonkey74
a reply to: CharlieSpeirs

The male contraception pill or an implant maybe? I would go for that also.
Not sure many men will though especially younger ones lol.

The pill/implant for girls can send some of them crazy-I have experienced one or two of those sadly-
Imagine what the equivalent would do to us guys,a lot of us are mad enough already.

a reply to: buellmph
You are lucky, or perhaps in a monogamous relationship? I know plenty of girls that aren't you're "whores in bars" that I wouldn't even drink after, and have been told, by them, all about shacking up with random guys.

. I have three children, not from planning but from thinking I was in the clear and not able to conceive at that time, and we didn't need to "cap it". Thankfully, my body has changed and I do know now when he needs to wrap it up. It's a handy gift. If not for that, there'd be a lot of wrapping involved.

It really isn't all fear mongering.