People who flirt on internet randomly are ugly animals

calstorm
reply to post by candlestick

 

OP, the people that randomly show up on yahoo and g-mail are being paid to lure people to a website. If some random stranger you have never given your e-mail address to does this, then that is what they are. They scour the web and hit as many people as they can to lure you to a site usually sex and porn sites.

They normally target males.

A lot of times they try to pretend they have met you, either in real life or online social media.

When bored I have had fun messing with a few of them. Being a straight female who doesn't use social media I find it hilarious because they are hoping to snag some horny guy. Pretty easy to mess with them and waste their time.

I know ,but still annoying.
Actually not just on the e-mail ,if you use social media platforms/forums and any chat room,there's some chance to meet this.I don't think most of them are for money ,I feel they just feel fun for harass people.I noticed many people on this thread don't think unwanted flirting COULD be a problem.
That kind of "coercive" thought pissed off me .Like saying" I flirt you ,it's MUST be good for you ,if you don't agree(/accept) it ,it's your fault."It seem like the mindset of rapist.It's invasive, invasive internet ads.

RUFFREADY
Beauty and the Beast - Tale As Old As Time

Here is a candlestick helping an ugly animal , that is in love .. and I'm sure he flirted a bit ...on the way

Beautiful! One of my favourite tales!

Candlestick: Beauty and the Beast is not about zoophilia. The beast is a metaphor for how selfish, cruel, self-centered people can become beautiful when they start listening to their heart and feel and spread some love. It's not about physical beauty or ugliness, but inner one.


I agree the sex/porn unwanted spam is annoying (I get them too on FB, email, etc) but that is not flirting, that is sex business.

reply to post by candlestick

It's the internet. It's expected. Either don't go on the internet or learn to ignore the 'flirting'. IMHO

FlyersFan
reply to post by candlestick

 

It's the internet. It's expected. Either don't go on the internet or learn to ignore the 'flirting'. IMHO

It happen in real life form stranger also.

Mainstream media sucks for most members here .Either don't go on the real life or learn to ignore the mainstream media?

What if I say"I think your comment sucks.”?
It's expected.Either don't go on the internet or learn to ignore the 'criticism'? IMHO

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Based on your avatar and OP.. I'm picturing you as a fairly attractive, asexual Japanese college girl..
Did I miss the mark?

candlestick
What if I say"I think your comment sucks.”?

Go ahead. It's the internet. Negative comments are expected.
And if I can't handle someone saying that, then I shouldn't be on the internet.

reply to post by candlestick


Candlestick, you are so right, flirting on the net is horrible. Listen, why don't we grab a cup of coffee - yeah, over at my place - and we can cut those lights down low and give these internet creeps the slip.

I don't want to creep you out, so just to let you know I was just horsing around,



A serious answer. The internet is very much like hanging out at a bar or a dance, everyone wants a little attention and we think our thoughts are just about the coolest things in the room, and then we find out that other people also have great thoughts and experiences, and we communicate with them. Humans live life in social situations, and net-speak and the internet have given society, in just the past twenty years or less for most people, access to data that we wouldn't have dreamed of when we were kids (remember encyclopedia's, when they were the source of hard-to-find information? Libraries used to have answer desks, for people who wanted to know the population of Brasil and things like that). Now, we can ask the world, and ATS is a fine place to do that. In the midst of that we also hang out with each other. Communication amongst us human apes has taken a giant leap into the future in the very near past, and we are now all along for the ride. Sometimes friendliness and what you call flirting comes with the territory.

reply to post by Aleister


Awesome explanation, Aleister...and so very true!

Sadly, I'm fearing you will still be 'misunderstood' and accused of nefarious activities with horses.

jacygirl

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zooiphile is my middle name (seriously)....and thanks

The best middle name I've ever seen is that of one of the original Tiffany's (I forget his first name, back with it in a minute)....Louis Comfort Tiffany

DenyFlatulence
reply to post by candlestick

 

Based on your avatar and OP.. I'm picturing you as a fairly attractive, asexual Japanese college girl..
Did I miss the mark?

There’s right and wrong .

Aleister
reply to post by candlestick

 

Candlestick, you are so right, flirting on the net is horrible. Listen, why don't we grab a cup of coffee - yeah, over at my place - and we can cut those lights down low and give these internet creeps the slip.

Where your confidence came from ?You think it's fun ,I think it's attention whoring+dumb.

Aleister
I don't want to creep you out, so just to let you know I was just horsing around,

A serious answer. The internet is very much like hanging out at a bar or a dance, everyone wants a little attention and we think our thoughts are just about the coolest things in the room, and then we find out that other people also have great thoughts and experiences, and we communicate with them. Humans live life in social situations, and net-speak and the internet have given society, in just the past twenty years or less for most people, access to data that we wouldn't have dreamed of when we were kids (remember encyclopedia's, when they were the source of hard-to-find information? Libraries used to have answer desks, for people who wanted to know the population of Brasil and things like that). Now, we can ask the world, and ATS is a fine place to do that. In the midst of that we also hang out with each other. Communication amongst us human apes has taken a giant leap into the future in the very near past, and we are now all along for the ride. Sometimes friendliness and what you call flirting comes with the territory.

edit on 15-4-2014 by Aleister because: spelleng fixx

Even the case like calstorm mentioned is friendliness ?I don't think so.

DenyFlatulence
reply to post by candlestick

 

Based on your avatar and OP.. I'm picturing you as a fairly attractive, asexual Japanese college girl..
Did I miss the mark?

Ill probably guess an non-japanese, who probably watches anime and or asian drama. Anyone claiming to be be a hot female on the internet(lulz) gets a dull response for me.

I do not hate online dating but i find it weak, many i know use it for casual *cough* ing, i like girls introduced through friends.

Much better outcome.

Seems like this Poster is going after the players instead of the ball(T&C applies in any forums).

Anyway, if i dont see you in the future.

Good bye~ desu.

Alright folks, let's keep it civil and as on topic as the OP provides.

Just cause it's BTS doesn't mean it's the MudPitt, nor does it give license to violate the T&C.

~Tenth