reply to post by Winged-Sphinx
Oh man your making this more difficult then it is or has to be. What I am saying is that's a whole lot of suppositions you and everyone including me
is throwing around, a whole barrel load of nonsense to carry around.
Trust me dude in time you forget everything...Love and life are just fleeting things, and you are just turning a anthill into a mountain with all
this stuff. It's simple, yet not. OK you been at this for what 2 or so years you say, which is cool and all. But chances are if anything were to
happen it would have happened by now, no offense but playing footsie with this airhead must be getting old even to you.
In general people only ask for advice only when they want to hear something, you see it on all the daytime talk shows people watch, in women's
programing its full of it, Oprah! Dr whatever! and what not always giving them the things they want to hear. You to are the same, and i think you
know or have an inclination this is going nowhere. So leave it at that and just you know get another girlfriend or find somebody else to play footsie
with, I dont know how you people do things but its simple really.
The truth is bro, the only thing your battling and getting on about is you own ego, and manifestations. Because again, things either are or are not,
they either happen or do not happen, you either do or do not. Everything else is just mirrors of your entanglements in this world. And saying that,
you can always just go ahead and straight up ask her how she feels for you, that generally solves things fast. One way or another you will get an
answer, and if she does not answer. Well then! that is still an answer. And if things turn sour, well she can always go complain to her girlfriends
about the guy who was such a hanger on and creep. Seems to be a favorite hobby among females. Because the whole point of it is not who looks better
but in bringing some sort of conclusion to this thing one way or another, and females have a way of just dragging things on.
But the longer you drag this thing on, and the longer you get entangled with this stranger, the more of a pain its going to be. Sure right now your
probably thinking oh this is acceptable or it may be cool, but give it time and especially seeing as from all you said its only you who seem to be
thinking and feeling these things, well basically it takes two to tango. What you have here is a one step dance, playing solitaire with yourself,
attributing things, to that which just may never be there, suppositions.
And you may be thinking that this thing is fun at first but give it time and the longer it drags on and the longer you get entangled in this, the
more and longer it will take you to get untangled from all this. At first it may be like "oh this is so supper awesome" then its like "oh wait a
minute what the what" then its like "oh man this stuff really sucks, it just sucks"
So ya if you have to bring some sort of confrontations, to get this over with. Then do it, and just get it over with and whatever happens...happens.
As I dont believe in time, I do not believe in wasting time. But your definitely wasting your energy on it, and worse like I said this could be only
in your head and it may be just a thing for her, in fact its a unconscious instinct for females to always keep there options open, especially if there
bored at home or going through a bit of a slump. Besides this shall come around again...In this existence things have a habit of repeating themselfs
over and over..Its the name of the game. Its inbuilt into this program we call live. And nobody gets out of live, alive.
And most important is. This is not a do as I do thing, this is do as I say. And I say! That by all probability you can skip a great lot of
headaches and all that #, and just get yourself another girl to become infatuated with, I mean its not like there is a shortage of those. You seem
to be in-synch on a majority of the populations, so it should not be that hard to find somebody else, I dont even know what your complaining about,
this is a total non issue. Oh and forget everything else and the drama, or playing make her jealous games like others have said, that stuff is
stupid and would probably lead another thread.
And I in no way no hell want to read another thread or a continuation on this junk. So if you dont do it for yourself, then at least do it for me,
or the poor people who have read this thread and are just mind numbed by the whole thing.
Oh and carry on, you come to a conspiracy site for relationship advice, what do you expect.