Originally posted by blanketgirl
If you can't handle the child- either you shouldn't have gotten pregnant or you should give it up for adoption to one of the millions of couples
who can't have their own kids.
Your personal experience is the reason why choice should remain in place--you don't know how you will feel when you are faced with the situation.
Many women may also feel different than you do--I don't think that it is fair to project your beliefs on anyone else.
"You shouldn't have gotten pregnant"--in many circumstances, pregnancy isn't because of reckless behavior, or is all sex that isn't for
procreative reasons reckless?
Perhaps more women should give their unwanted babies up for adoption, but in many circumstances, carrying a child to term will have serious
consequences on the woman's life--her career, her reputation... Giving a baby up for adoption isn't a viable option in many circumstances.
So in essence, a woman should only have sex unless she is prepared for motherhood?
The attitude that premarital sex is taboo and unwanted pregnancy is the punishment is so hypocritical. Where in the United States are people just
having sex for procreation? WHERE??? Every single Catholic/Christian I know has had sex just for fun. And not reckless unprotected sex, but
condoms break. Birth control pills fail. Its a fact of life. Premarital sex is happening everywhere and has been going on for thousands of
years--it isn't going to stop. Christians and Catholics can beat their bibles and push abstinance all they want, but the great majority of people in
America are having sex before marriage and they aren't doing it to make babies. Isn't something wrong here if everyone in America is doing it, yet
the church says it is a sin?
The other argument that abortions should only be in cases of rape is also flawed. Do you know how long it takes to convict someone of rape in this
country? Longer than the first trimester, that's for sure. Perhaps even the second trimester--six months in today's legal system is nothing. To
first prove that the pregnancy was from rape or incest before having an abortion is not a viable solution, not to mention the humiliation the victim
must face standing up and describing the situation over and over again in public.
What about cases where amnio in the 16th week finds that the baby will be born with severe genetic defects? What about cases where the mother's
health may be in danger? There are too many "what ifs" to put restrictions in place, besides the fact that it shouldn't be left up to the
government to decide when it is right and when it is wrong.