Sorry to be late, but I really just have to reply to a poster a few pages back.
Wow, did you really just ask that gay guy how he doesn't know if he's gay because he hasn't had sex with a woman? You're one idiot for even saying
that. You sound like the majority of sex crazed straight men who think every attraction revolves around nothing other than sex.
Ever heard of other things such as oh I dont know, an EMOTIONAL connection with someone you want to be with?
You just said that you tried something with a guy because you were "sexually frustrated" and that it felt good, but your gut told you it was wrong.
So what, if the gay guy sleeps with a woman, and it feels good, then he is not gay? Why can you say it felt good, but he can't? Who you want to spend
time with and get butterflies from is way more of a representation of your orientation than SEX.
I'm a lesbian who did not want to be one. In fact I tried "Praying the gay away" for years. It never worked. I only felt emotions, physical, and
sexual feelings for FEMALES. But guess what... Even though I KNEW I was gay, I tried being with guys to fit in with the norm. It felt emotionless and
boring to hold guys hands, to hug them, to kiss them, and yes, I even tried sex with my male best friend. I knew if i could enjoy it with anyone, it
would be the guy I was closest too.
Guess what? I was bored out of my mind, and I had no connection with him. Being with guys felt "Guilty" and I had a "Bad gut feeling" to me as well,
just how you did towards guys. Yeah, well it's because I like GIRLS.
Quit playing this "you don't know you're gay until you have sex with a woman" bull crap. You don't need to screw someone to know what you are.
Also, why are people the people who are against gays adopting by quoting bible verses and calling it unnatural failing to argue in response to why
infertile people shouldn't be allowed to adopt then? Nature didn't allow them reproduction, no? So why aren't people speaking out against them as
unnatural? God made these people unnatural, so I guess that's for a reason right? And like some anti-gay poster said, "if people aren't having sex for
the purpose of procreation, then it is considered being promiscuous". Hell, there's a lot of promiscuity going on in the world, and 85% of it it is
I guess all the infertiles are promiscuous and unnatural.
edit on 13-12-2011 by OceanMetTheSky because: (no reason
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