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Originally posted by Skada
Go for it. Perhaps she is thinking of you as well.
What have you got to lose? The worst that can happen is that she says never to call her again.
Originally posted by pcrobotwolf
reply to post by Farnhold
Do not listen to the first two posters please, calling her would be a mistake if she used you. I know its hard to stop thinking of her but just move on. Do things that will make you feel better about your self, workout, look for a better job, hell go back to school if you can. Most likely she doesn't think very highly of you if she could just use you so get your balls back. Nothing urks a women more then when they leaves and the guy she used to date now has his life together and is getting attention from other girls.
Warning if she gets a chance to screw it up for you she will she will come back only to leave you again. Do this!!!! Work hard and put your money into self improvement, get your hair cut, buy some new clothing, whiten your teeth, workout 3 days a week or more, save up for a new car or apartment, build your confidence back up. When you see her "DO NOT ACT HURT" be strong. Stop talking about it with your friends because they talk so put on the happy face and act like nothing is wrong. I give a month before she has to drop in and see why your not crushed. She will tell you that she is sorry and it was wrong blah blah blah. Look her straight in the eyes and say i accept your apology but i could never trust you again. Ps make her visit short and sweet if you can find a hot girl and befriend her and have her come over during your talk "with the ex" do it. this will burn your ex sick and she will come after you full force even if she is dating another guy. Her attention with you will spur her friends interest in you so start talking to her friends.