posted on Aug, 2 2004 @ 02:40 AM
heres the deal, my Friend/Housemate has been really annoying lately. He's always trying to pry into my personal life and is always annoyed when i
wont tell him (why would I its not his business). He gets really upset when i go out and dont take him along and all that. because of the way he acts,
i'm not inclined to hang out with him as much coz he irritates me.
Anyways, lately i've been hanging around with my best friend (female) alot (see THIS
for info on that) and it looks as if me and my best friend may be dating soon... Last night i got home and my housemate went crazy at me
for spending all my time with her and accused her of using me and being a hussy (he doesnt know anything about whats happened between me and my best
friend, but he does know how i feel about her). So i snapped at him for being a prick and not knowing what he's talking about. He was acting like i
was married to him or something and it was really bugging me more than usual.
anyways in the enusing argument i figued out the poor guy is just plain lonely. His closest friend out of our group was the singer in his band but
they kicked him out. Now his close friend is hardly ever around and seems to have become a born again christian (which conpletely conflicts with my
housemates views). He went on about how we all have our best 'buddies' and how he doesnt have one anymore... to tell you the truth i pitied him at
that point. I told him to be proactive, he cant just expect people to come to him when he never leaves the house. He never has any money coz he hasnt
got a job and he doesnt look for work, he keeps putting it off or applying for one job then getting depressed coz he didnt get it coz he turned up
late for the interview. Because he has no money he cant come out with our group of friends when we go out partying (we're all sick of supporting his
Ok so he sounds depressed and he needs help. So i tell him he needs to proactively find a job, so he can have money, so he can get a car, so he can
get the # ou of the house and hang out with us and find himself a 'buddy' or girlfriend or something to keep him from bein so #ing annoying so we
dont loathe being around him. So what does he do? Nothing, he blows up at me for not knowing what i'm talking about and how would i know what to do
to have a fun life. I have friends i have a very beautiful female friend (soon to be girlfriend hopefully) i have lots of friends and i get invited
places i work a good job and get paid good money and drive a good car (not wanting to sound all egotistical or anything)... so yeah, what do i know
about how he can improve his life.
I want to help him out, honestly i do, but he just seems to loathe the fact that his life is in this rut and all his other friends lives are so much
more fun... but then he refuses to listen to anyone or do anything about it...
(oh and yay for me finally getting my best friend (nearly).. Love you Mel
[Edited on 2-8-2004 by specialasianX]