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Can Women Really Understand Men

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posted on Mar, 8 2011 @ 11:43 PM
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Is it possible for women to honestly empathize with the needs of a man?

Can one woman completely satisfy all the wants and desires of a man?

Are women destined to fail at providing happinesss to their mate by expecting monogomy for a lifetime?





posted on Mar, 8 2011 @ 11:45 PM
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Does everyone in this gender you brought up really the way you described?
My woman understands me.
If not, i tell her.

And i tell her if i think she doesn't understand me, i'll tell her, and she understands that.



posted on Mar, 8 2011 @ 11:48 PM
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Originally posted by MagesticEsoteric
Is it possible for women to honestly empathize with the needs of a man?

Can one woman completely satisfy all the wants and desires of a man?

Are women destined to fail at providing happinesss to their mate by expecting monogomy for a lifetime?



If you find the right woman then yea....my nan and grandad have been married for over 60 years.
My mum and dad have been married for near on 35 years.

Your obviously not meeting the right type of girl.....ive been in longish relationships...5 years and 7 years. People change over time and your not always compatible when your views change or even your lifestyle.

Theres plenty of good women out there, as are there plenty of good men. Its just finding the right person
It may take time...some people never find them...but some are lucky and spend a lifetime together.
I have friends who have been dating the same girl since school....that was 16 years ago and they are now married and very happy.



posted on Mar, 8 2011 @ 11:48 PM
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woohoo a double post
Sorry people must have pushed the button twice or something


edit on 8-3-2011 by loves a conspiricy because: double post



posted on Mar, 8 2011 @ 11:49 PM
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reply to post by Anttyk47
 


hhhmm....sound like you sorta make her understand you.

Whether she likes it or not.




posted on Mar, 8 2011 @ 11:52 PM
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reply to post by MagesticEsoteric
 


Are you saying men NEED non-monogamous relationships???



posted on Mar, 8 2011 @ 11:54 PM
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reply to post by loves a conspiricy
 


for shame, for shame. The Double Post



posted on Mar, 8 2011 @ 11:58 PM
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reply to post by kalamatas
 


Not at all.

I'm just hopeful that we can all be satisfied and grateful without comprimising.



posted on Mar, 9 2011 @ 12:02 AM
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The relationship I have is satisfying and we are grateful BECAUSE we make compromises to each other. But these compromises come about because we have empathy and understanding for each other and are able to prioritize the needs over the wants.



posted on Mar, 9 2011 @ 12:05 AM
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To understand the opposite sex is to understand your own sex. Think about this we are all human. Women and Men are all one in the same. Some men other men can't understand. Some women other women can't understand.

But the fact remains if you can put yourself in someone else's shoes. Then you can understand anyone. Men and women think just alike. The difference is the personality using those thoughts.



posted on Mar, 9 2011 @ 12:08 AM
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Originally posted by MagesticEsoteric
Is it possible for women to honestly empathize with the needs of a man?

Can one woman completely satisfy all the wants and desires of a man?

Are women destined to fail at providing happinesss to their mate by expecting monogomy for a lifetime?



Never mind
Peace, NRE.
edit on 9-3-2011 by NoRegretsEver because: Never mind



posted on Mar, 9 2011 @ 12:13 AM
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I completely agree. I actually didn't express myself appropriately.

Relationships are absolute comprimise. It is a given in any relationship that one has to comprimise certain aspects of oneself.

Having said that though, there are certain aspects of oneself that are not on the table of comprimise. Once you comprimise the non-negotiable part of your being....it's over.

There is nothing left. That's what I meant.



posted on Mar, 9 2011 @ 12:14 AM
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I gave you a star... I'm glad to know I'm NOT the only one to do that.



Lol



posted on Mar, 9 2011 @ 12:16 AM
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reply to post by NoRegretsEver
 


Ahhh...come on. That's not right!

You have something to say so, just say it.



posted on Mar, 9 2011 @ 12:18 AM
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I dont understand this post much...

But, Ill throw in my thoughts: No such things as a perfect mate, but yes, women can understand men, just like men can understand women.



posted on Mar, 9 2011 @ 12:21 AM
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Oh, I'm just playing "devil's advocate"
Thanks for the star.


edit on 9-3-2011 by MagesticEsoteric because: (no reason given)



posted on Mar, 9 2011 @ 12:25 AM
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I believe its possible, but not until later in the mans life........when sex isn't the only thing on his mind...




posted on Mar, 9 2011 @ 12:26 AM
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There really isn't a whole lot NOT to understand. The hypothetical questions were quite specific.

Moving on.....



posted on Mar, 9 2011 @ 12:34 AM
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It sounds to me like you are referring to being empathetic to the opposite sex.

It's really the same concept as "walking in someone else's shoes".

Empathy can be essential to some relationships....probably most of them.



posted on Mar, 9 2011 @ 12:38 AM
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Originally posted by MagesticEsoteric
Is it possible for women to honestly empathize with the needs of a man?

Can one woman completely satisfy all the wants and desires of a man?

Are women destined to fail at providing happinesss to their mate by expecting monogomy for a lifetime?



IMHO women cannot fully empathize with men because we are raised differently. That's just the way that its been. The forms of empathy that men are raised with is different. Example: Women do not understand how it feels to get hit in the groin. We know it hurts but cannot understand the agonizing pain.

No one women can understand and or satisfy the wants or need of a man as these differ based on society, and culture.

We are not destined to fail against a real man. It is impossible. What real men want as opposed to younger men is different in many ways that only one man can explain to another. Men's perspective's change as they age.

Many cultures teach how being with a man can change your life. Many are not aware of the attributes of a dual relationship, and are then hindered from having a productive relationship. This is not the fault of one particular person as it is as a group.

Men love as well as women, and we are not that different we are just taught that way.

Peace, NRE.




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