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Sex at Dawn shows how far from human nature sexual monogamy really is and unapologetically upends unwarranted assumptions and unfounded conclusions while offering a revolutionary understanding of why we live and love as we do.
Originally posted by DavinciThales
Human beings are complex creatures. Sorry I couldn't watch the video due to a slow internet connection.
What I noticed is Polygamy seems rarer than Monogamy in humans . Is this because Monogamy more easily determines who is the father of the child and so who gets to be the father-figure for that child?
edit on 27-2-2011 by DavinciThales because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by FIFIGI
Does it make sense?
Originally posted by Xavialune
I get what youre saying though. But humans evolve...do you think monogamy is simply the next step in our evolution, or do you think its a sidestep that holds us back? I personally think it is an evolved state. one could argue the deep love of a monogamous relationship could eventually occur between multiple partners, but I think the majority of humanity isnt quite there yet.
perhaps I'm missing the original point, but thats just my opinion.edit on 27-2-2011 by Xavialune because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by intrepid
Originally posted by FIFIGI
Does it make sense?
Not in the least to me. I have no problem with gay marriage, or any other btw BUT being married to more than 1 woman? That's just a map for disaster. 1 or none.
In Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality renegade researchers Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá debunk almost everything we “think we know” about sex and show how our promiscuous past haunts our current struggles regarding monogamy, sexual orientation, and family dynamics. Weaving together convergent, often overlooked evidence from anthropology, archeology, primatology, anatomy, and psychosexuality, Sex at Dawn shows how far from human nature sexual monogamy really is and unapologetically upends unwarranted assumptions and unfounded conclusions while offering a revolutionary understanding of why we live and love as we do
Originally posted by rogerstigers
As a someone currently practicing practicing polyamory (not polygamamy, as that implies "marriage") I can say that this feels totally normal and natural to me and my primary (my wife).
I chuckle at the people who try to degrade and berate me for this lifestyle, but the simple fact is that I believe that humans are more than capable of living and caring for more than one person at a time. I feel it natural and normal and only current western culture has made it "abnormal".
Originally posted by hawkiye
While I have no problem with polygamy among consenting adults if they so chose. It seems all the cultures that have practised it through the ages have been oppressive toward women and treated them more as property then equals. Even Mormon polygamy tends to oppress thier women. I know some polygamous families and on the surface they appear to be happy, however you can tell they are not, their is always jealousies among the wives and a downtrodden or forlorn vibe too.
Originally posted by rogerstigers
reply to post by Versa
I am not certain about "polygamy", but what you described is something I know as "swinging". That is differant from Polyamory.
My understanding is that Polygamy is all about having multiple wives(and theoretically, husbands) but the reasons for it vary.
Originally posted by rogerstigers
reply to post by Versa
I assume you mean sleeping around with other people without the consent of your primary lover? Then yeah, I would agree that it has been around probably about as long as humans have been wearing the shroud of monogamy.
Originally posted by Versa
It does seem to be a part of human nature however hurtful it is to us now with our monogamous ideals. It does however make sense from a reproductive point of view, putting all your eggs in one basket isn't the best plan for passing on your genes.