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Originally posted by Raist
What you have said here is exactly what BH, myself and other posters have been saying all along.
because God is the only authority and His will is my only charge. That is the contract that didn't need to be written or signed when my wife "spread her legs" and I chose to conceive this child. If more fathers would only stop behaving as insolent boys instead of men this would not be an issue. You plant your seed and it's your responsibility, not hers, not the state's.
Originally posted by Annee
On a personal note - - - I would say no child should be kept if not wanted fully and the parent(s) do not have the means of support (both emotional and financially).
I she decides to keep it - - I think it should be her own responsibility.
Therefore - - in legal terms - - I can only look at the welfare and financial support of the child - - - who is completely innocent.
reply to post by BiohazardsBack
Well, I believe women should be screened to be fit to be parents as well, it just isn't logistically possible. The reason it would be a good thing for the father is because he may want the baby, but the woman may not want him to have the baby, and as I said, the woman may have a very good reason to not want him to be a part of the child's life.
All I'm saying is that natural, God given law grants men power that far exceeds that of women. And just like rocketry, power without control, without responsibility, is wasted. It's as if the power did not exist in the first place. As a man, the male of this awesome species that is man, you have a duty to shape this power into something useful. You naturally have all of the power that must be regulated into existence for women to be anything near equal.
Originally posted by joechip
reply to post by livefreeordieinnh
I disagree, firstly, that its authority is based on a historical "self-evidence," ie., a cultural relevance, or geographic norms.
The only power that man "naturally" has in excess of women is a brute, physical strength,
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
reply to post by livefreeordieinnh
For someone to claim that one gender is smarter or more powerful than the other is a sign of gross insecurity. And not AT ALL what this thread is about.
Originally posted by Raist
reply to post by Annee
You simply said the child should have financial support. They can get that without a father many do every day.
Just as many, also get financial support without a mother.
If the mother can opt out of motherhood in three ways the father should get an opt out as well.
If you cannot understand what you wrote in your own post, it is not my fault.
Why must you be so crass when answering a post? I was not crass with you in any way.
Added: As some have said this was proposed, had it passed it would have been legal as well. We are discussing possible legislations and their implications, so opinion can be discussed as well.
in legal terms - - I can only look at the welfare and financial support of the child - - - who is completely innocent
Originally posted by Hefficide
Men already have reproductive rights.
They have the right to keep their pants zipped if they can't step up to the plate.
They also have the right to get the snot kicked out of them by other guys if they fail to exercise their first right.
edit on 9/16/10 by Hefficide because: missed a few words in all the excitement
Originally posted by hotbakedtater
So are you admitting your stance is insecure?
reply to post by livefreeordieinnh
I disagree with the assertion that the underpinnings of the idea of personal liberty that is the United States are not based on cultural relevance or geographic norms, and ultimately, self-evidence. Just off the top of my head are a few links below which further my claim.