As a result of a recent thread which centred around mental illness, I wanted to reach out to ATS members to garner opinion on the issue of mental
illness affecting the outcome of our lives.
Across the world, being mentally ill can stigmatize you for the rest of your life. As global citizens, do we accept mental illness as part of everyday
life or consider it a handicap to succeeding?
It can be a handicap in the sense that sometimes you have to deal with your mental illness, but in the US there is little leeway for it.
Sometimes dealing with it can be so overwhelming that you can't work. For instance the depressive phase of bipolar disorder.
But there is little to protect you and keep yoru job so that you can deal with your condition. If you have a jerk employer, your essentially out of a
job.
This includes grief as well. Four months after I got married I lost my beloved bil. There is nothing worse then for a parent to lose a child. The
grief my MIL suffers and the moment she came home from the hospital I will never forget.
She lost her job after 2 months because she wasn't ready to come back to work. You don't bounce back from stuff like that. There is little
protection for the mentally ill and the grieving, which I consider temporary mental illness.
How anyone expects parents to function after losing a child is beyond me. My husband was forced back after only 2 weeks.
My husband and his family suffer from bpd. So I know quite a bit about it.
if anyone ever wants help or to talk about it, feel free to u2u me.
I have a number of life experiences, both with depression and around people who suffer from mental illness. In the UK you dare not whisper to a
potential employer that you suffer from depression for fear that you will be taken of the candidate list.
My experiences have made me question perceived conditions of normality and really wonder if anyone can say they are truly normal.
And with all the advanced stuff that the corporate government hides you know there is some stuff that can really change the human body for better or
worse.
edited to add: and mental illness can be classified against everyone since the system manipulates people in a schizophrenic way.
I wonder what kind of cellular regeneration can occur through enhanced life experiences?
If our mind controls who we are, we need to be filling it with more opportunity to appreciate more than the corporations can provide. But is it too
late?
90% of the mental illness we have to deal with and suffer thru is BECAUSE of money, things, and the advertising corporAmerica pour on us daily. Then,
to add insult to injury (literally), we are made by these same people to 'suck it up' and 'be a man' (or woman)'. This from people who have the
comfy, cushy lifestyle and the means to keep themselves that way.
I believe that our materialistic lives account for a lot of mental illness. Camping outside of an Apple store for the latest phone is not regular
behavior!
Life is challenging for us all. Anyone who claims competency is fooling himself.
List of things that drive us mad:
1. Money
2. Relationships
3. Health problems
4. Job challenges
5. Control issues (burger king- have it your way).
6. Selfishness
7. Pride
8. Addictions
9. Religion
10. I could exponentiate this list by a factor of x2000.
I suspect the vast majority of mental illness is caused by:
Mercury, Methyl Mercury & Lead in sub-acute toxicity.
Yet psychiatrists and doctors continue to prescribe things like prozac and other MAO inhibitors that never treat the root cause.
Pharmacutical companies no longer find cures for anything. Cures are shelved, because they're not profitable. Instead they create treatments based on
the subscription model.
There exists a $5 cure for cancer (works for breast cancer and Leukemia), but instead Big-Pharma want to charge people $50,000/month cancer
treatments, which fail to cure anything.
Welcome to the real world. The question is can you handle it ?
I am sorry to hear that. Depression is more accepted in the US, if you can function. You might be protected a little under FMLA. But there is less
stigma attached to depression, because it is so commonplace, But for the others, there is still a stigma.
I highly suggest this book. Living well with depression and bipolar disorder. The website is pretty amazing too. Teh author suffers himself, so you
have someone who knows exactly what it is.
I bawled one night as I was reading letters from bpd sufferers. The darkness, despair and hopelessness was heart wrenching.
I highly suggest it. I am getting ready to reread it again. My husband's father is dying. Any change throws a bpd sufferer into a tailspin, and major
symptoms are showing again.