Women don't have as much testosterone. Testerone in them rises when they get horny, but I dont think as near as men's. When women have an excess of
testosterone they start to act and look like men and are more aggressive.
It's the testosterone that drives people towards sex, and makes them aggressive ie horny, toward sex or so I've read.
But seriously.. look at sexual practices today. It's always associated with "bad" things.
Aggression is good. Sexyness is "naughty". Sexual foreplay = "being bad". A guy who doesn't care whether he offends a girl or not with the use
of sexual or dirty jokes is a "bad boy". So being a perv is good. But that's messed up because on one hand, she can label any guy she wants
a"real" perv, sicko, sociopath, call him on sexual harrassment and deem him immoral for doing something even less worse than the "badboy" who
she'll get horny over because the guy knows how to tittilate her, to turn on her lust faculties and she'll stay on cloud 9 no matter what he does.
It depends on how you say it right? Wrong! What you say is what you say sometimes, period!
Being "bad" is sexy. Being "naughty" is sexy. Being violent is sexy. Being cruel, is sexy. Being torturous is hot. Burning is hot. Agressiveness
Why women appeal to Brute Force
Why Women Appeal to Brute Force
"Not surprisingly, given that “head of the household” is a phrase that cannot be uttered in today’s egalitarian homes, many women satisfy their
yearning for dominance by throwing themselves at bad boys or even worse. The very day, March 17, 2005, that Scott Peterson—sentenced to death in
California for killing his wife and unborn son and throwing their remains into San Francisco Bay—took up residence on San Quentin’s death row, he
received three-dozen phone calls from smitten women, including an 18-year-old who wanted to become his second wife. According to an April story in
People, Peterson is still being flooded with letters from female admirers almost five years later, many of the mash notes containing checks to pay for
his commissary charges. That’s par for the course on death row, where the rule is: The more notorious the killer, the more fan mail and marriage
proposals. The most fan-mail-saturated killer in San Quentin is Richard Allen Davis, who in 1993 kidnapped 12-year-old Polly Klaas at knifepoint from
her home in Petaluma, Calif., killed her, and buried her in a shallow grave."
Telling quote there.
I'm not making this up. There's something really bad going on, and not the sexy bad.
But actually, this is all probably due to the fact that people are not versed in TANTRIC SEX, and karezza, or more enlightened forms of practices, ie,
the internal climax instead of ejaculatory. Not that it's wrong, but in excess (and way less than you probably thought can be excessive) Normal
violent and ejaculatory orgasms can overtimulate the stress response in males, and traditional sexual practices can cause a weakening of love due to a
massive drop in hormones and neurotransmitters right after violent orgasms or ejaculations. That's why certain men dont want to cuddle afterwards, or
certain men feel extremely detatched after sex and women, who are more used to the internal climax are all like "WTF!?". That's also why love in a
relationship dies after the initial lust stage. Don't get me wrong, women can feel just as detatched also, perhaps because of excessiveness as well,
and excessive external forms of orgasm.
As per my friend DrewHempel, and other sources.. bonobo chimps are always having sex and they are peaceful, because they know how to utilize the
internal climax. Also the females dominate their society, but that's their society anyway. Other chimps are always having territorial wars and
fighting each other, raping their women whenever they dont give it up. The problem with humans tho is that they're used to the normal traditional
form of orgasm for males, so they expect that, and they expect men to be all aggressive and violent, etc. They wouldn't have it any other way, they
are used to that. So women are hardly attracted to the other man, except maybe when they get older, but still, and those men are rare and women don't
usually understand it, because they want their man to be aggressive and overly dominant, to the point of it being kind of homosexual too, overly
fascinated with the male aggression associated with the stimulation of a stress response.
Call me stupid but there's something going on and good men are suffering because of all this, and there are plenty of accounts to show it. It's not
"whining" it's expression.
[edit on 25-4-2010 by The Quiet Storm]