posted on Feb, 22 2010 @ 09:32 PM
Praxilla, you mentioned that you almost fell off the railing, correct? And you also said your Dad pretty much saved your life by catching you just in
time?
I have heard of something similar before.
The reason you have a connection with Niagara Falls is because something traumatic happened there, and you "forgot" the reason why it was traumatic.
Explanation:
Theory:
-When something traumatic happens to us at a location, it sends the visual image (or name of the location if you prefer), and a message.
-If the location is associated with something bad, such as almost dying, the mind will also include a message like "Remember this place, because I
almost got injured here". The mind's theory is that when you pass by that place again, you will remember the previous time you were there and be
more careful
-Technically, that should work right? Well, it doesn't work exactly that way. Over time, you will "forget" the feelings that came with the
location, but still remember the location itself. Basically, you remember the location, but can't remember why you remembered it.
-The end result is that whenever you think about the location (Niagara Falls in your case), you seem to feel attracted to it, but can't explain
why.
Real Life Example From Me:
-A while ago, I was in a relationship with PersonA. PersonA left me for another person, leaving me with a bunch of negative emotions.
-Years later, after I had "forgiven" her for the pain. I started to have a desire to see PersonA again. You would think that after all the pain
PersonA game me, I would have forgotten her and moved on. Well, I didn't.
-When we finally did meet, I saw PersonA as a new person. I was attracted to her, and yet for some reason I still had feelings of dislike, even though
I "forgave" her for all the pain she gave me.
Using the theory I posted:
-When PersonA left me, my mind made a picture of them, and included a message that said "stay away from this person, because they have injured
me"
-Years later, when I had "forgiven" her. I had a desire to see her that continued to grow. The reason was because I had "forgiven" them, I
"forgot" the reason why i remembered them. According to the theory, I had forgotten why I had forgotten them , and only
remembered the person
-When I saw PersonA again, I was attracted, and yet had feelings of dislike. The reason for this was because I(me) only remembered the image of
PersonA, while the Mind remembered PersonA's image and the message "stay away from this person, because they have injured me"
For those that like short answers
-Quoting above: You have an attraction to Niagara falls because you had a traumatic experience when you were younger.
-you "forgot" about the event that happened there (yes, I know you said you remembered it). Because you "forgot", you can only recall the event as
something like a silent movie, where all you see is the images.
-Your Mind still remembered the entire event. The reason why you, years later, are having the attraction to Niagara Falls is because you "forgot"
the reason why you remembered the Falls. So all you can "remember" is the image of the Falls
I know how confusing that was to follow; I did my best to convert an entire psychology chapter down into readable format.
NOTE: just another viewpoint, nothing more, nothing less
-fossilera
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