posted on May, 15 2004 @ 04:43 PM
If a man is highly intelligent, attractive and as such, has a reasonable range of selection, is that not based on appearance for the most part
I have self respect. I do not ask nor feel I have the right to ask a woman to behave or act by any way than that which she does in the first place.
I mean, does not one choose to date another based on features that drew them to in the first place. So how, if after a while of dating, can it
become a matter of expectations, besides support of one another with money and team effort by commonization of goals.
I am tired of women that I meet, (I have been pulled anf grabbed at in bars ) expecting me to be all about sex and not have to offer me ANY
consideration as to their attitude or emotions. Do not get me wrong, I think beautiful women are amazing, and do find myself draw to them by dress,
sexuality and such, but to EXPECT queen status because of a tight outfit or large breasts an insult. If I say as much, I have been asked if I was
gay or even yelled at, (a woman in front of a coffeeshop was smoking and yelled: Am I not good enough to f88k!!!!) I could not believe it.
I am a straight guy, I have so much to offer and attractive enough that if I was like some guys are could take home many women if I wanted to, but it
is a scary notion that despite my efforts, am beginning to fear that a lot of women maybe really think men do not feel, that we cannot exhibit the
self control as to walk a path led by logical and rational sense rather than desire,
(If men think with their pants and not their mind, they deserve anything they get as to not have looked at anything but her flesh) and to me it is
I resent girls sitting somewhere and then hearing to the effect that something is wrong with me for not being all over them. Do women not constantly
complain about being sex objects, and not considered on other levels, so why are they so adverse to a guy who is really good looking, smart AND
actually thinks with his heart. Women it seems are just as shallow as they claim of men. I have so much to offer the right woman but I deserve the
respect of a person first, as a man second. Pity that so many people are so confused as men who cannot see the slavery to obsessive behaviour and
true freedom if led by hormones and women who dont know how to offer more than their bodies but as not as aggressive as to pick up or ask guys out
offer not much to go on if all we can do is see you and be expected to be the ones asking them out. If it is up to us and we cannot know anything
about a woman except that she is cute, how do I know what I am looking for, especially if most girls think I am cute. Just wanna know, cause I seek
to know love as truth not expectations and lust without meaning.