posted on Sep, 4 2009 @ 09:06 AM
reply to post by thing fish
First things first Things lol
That s not a friends with benefits situation.
That's ONLINE: the casual "dating"
You are going to go on dates and not just hooking up right ?
If it's just a spontaneous "hook up" situation you may want to be a bit leery at the start.
Friends with benefits as I understand it involves a relationship prior to the casual 'Stuff' cropping up. I have experiences in that type of FWB
relationships,but they often generate drama at some point.Some of them were awesome,were exactly what we truely needed and lead to a very close and
lasting friendships. A few lead to not being friends anymore.
Being that you stated that you would like to have a relationship but might be interested in a bit of fun,it sounds like you might be setting yourself
up for a little heartache.
I don't engage in the ONLINE: the casual "dating"
I'm sure if you did a web search on it you'll find the horror stories as to why I don't.
Make sure you have the ground rules in place.
ultimately your on your own ,so good luck, and I hope you end up with at least a good "friend'.
[edit on 4-9-2009 by The Utopian Penguin]