reply to post by Lasheic
I think you've hit on something very fundamental about... morality.
The purpose of every organism is to protect and propagate the genes it carries. Every organism has an evolved set of programmed behaviours to enable
it to fulfil this purpose. In complex organisms, we call these instincts.
In social animals such as ourselves, these instincts are of two apparently contradictory types. One set might be called the 'selfish' instincts -
those that promote the survival and reproductive success of the gene carrier, the individual. The other set we may dub the 'social' instincts. These
exist to protect and further the reproductive success of other carriers of the same genes - blood relatives, in plain English. We may also call this
latter set of instincts 'altruistic'.
By extending and elaborating our altruistic instincts to include an ever-widening circle of ever less closely-related individuals, humans have evolved
the enormously complex social groupings we call nations, cultures and civilizations. We have done so because - we being the sort of animal we are -
such extended groupings still serve to protect and propagate our
own genes.
Morality is essentially a recipe for managing conflicts between the two types of instinct. The contrast of which you speak arises from this. The
opposition of self-sufficiency and civilization is the opposition of selfish and social instincts, but it is a complementary opposition. Success in
carrying out the prime directive - get grandchildren! - is achieved through a suitable balance of the two types of instinct.