reply to post by AllSeeingI
My uncle served as a Special Ops in Iraq in 1991 and the Army sent those letters to the families of his troopers before they were sent on a certain
mission, only to come out all alive. Fortunately he was a big momma's boy and always called home to tell her where he was even if it meant a court
martial, allowing us to get the letter before she saw it. This is not uncommon, if very cruel, but the people who have to do this have their own
longterm baggage to deal with. Imagine spending all day notifying people about death, especially in such an unpopular war, and try to imagine how you
would deal with it. The military already is coping with serious susbtance abuse, homicide and suicide issues, this is a really f---g misguided way to
do it.
I dealt with the military press corps during my career and I always went out of my way to help them, newspapers generally are very anti-military
because so many senior editors either served in Vietnam, were war objectors or knew someone who was killed over there. Death notifications for
non-classified missions also are provided to the deceased's hometown paper, which in turn may or may not be slanting news for their publisher's own
purposes (if they allowed notices to be published at all, my editor hated the military and went out of his way to screw them). Trust me, the people
who mail out these letters know they are being fed a load from the top and it's eating at their conscience.