posted on Mar, 29 2009 @ 09:41 PM
Well i know what you are going through.. kind of. i've been on the other end of this situation i guess you could say.
My most recent ex was bipolar, depressed, a cutter and had a lot of self esteem problems, but i stayed with him. we met, hit things off, then the
closer we got, the more he told me. knowing them didn't effect anything, it was just when he used those as an excuse to treat me horrible that i
finally left him. i can handle problems, but being blamed for things i had no control over, DAILY was not worth it for me at the time.
when you are with someone you should get to know them and IF you feel comfortable telling it, then do it. if the girl is interested then she won't
leave. another ex of mine (dated for over 3 years) was into drugs, which led to depression, and eventually bipolar and he also had ADHD, so that was
crazy. i put up with the ups and downs. i loved him and he loved me. things like that matter a whole lot less than you think. you just have to embrace
your differences and learn from the past and accept yourself before you can expect anyone else to accept you. it sounds like you have had a hard time,
and i am sorry for that. but don't worry, you will find someone who loves you and accepts you, and probably also easier than you think.
if you ever need a friend of someone to talk to, i am up for it. you seen like an awesome guy, you just need a little reassuring.