Sexperts say quickies are best

Originally posted by anxietydisorder
Just one question.......
... but anyone spending only three minutes has a medical problem or a hair trigger like an overly horny 14 year old.

Could be medical or psychological issue.

My view is the person who is too quick isn't doing it enough.

If wearing him out doesn't fix it, well then obviously need to look at other treatment

Nothing less than 2 hours is satisfactory.

Ever.

reply to post by AccessDenied


How can a guy be expected to perform for that length of time? I don't believe that's possible without help of some kind...

TheBorg

Originally posted by AccessDenied
Nothing less than 2 hours is satisfactory.

Ever.

That's called a warm up..

Originally posted by AGENT_T

Originally posted by AccessDenied
Nothing less than 2 hours is satisfactory.

Ever.

That's called a warm up..

If I reply to this..I'm bordering on getting a red flag... NOT GOING THERE...

reply to post by TheBorg


Borg..read my above post...

Originally posted by AGENT_T
That's called a warm up..

NO way... that would be monotonous.

This study refers to penetration...not intimacy before or after.

I don't know about other women, but for me, (without being too personal); once I am 'relaxed' I am content.

If a guy wanted to just bang away for hours, I would end up punching him or elbow him in the ribs.

reply to post by Thurisaz


Ahh I see.. I didn't read it..naughty me..

I was including showering/dressing/dinner/dessert/bottle of wine and the taxi ride home.

Originally posted by AGENT_T
reply to post by Thurisaz

 

Ahh I see.. I didn't read it..naughty me..

I was including showering/dressing/dinner/dessert/bottle of wine and the taxi ride home.

OH GOOD GRIEF!

reply to post by Thurisaz


Agree with the first sentence.

Disagree with the last sentence.

Leaving the thread now before AD gets in BIG trouble!!!

Originally posted by AGENT_T
reply to post by Thurisaz

 

I was including showering/dressing/dinner/dessert/bottle of wine and the taxi ride home.

oh LOL then perhaps you would need about 5 hours!

cos I don't think you could get all that done in 2... unless its McDonalds = fast food?

reply to post by TheBorg


I really can't be very graphic, a Mod might give me a "Warn".
But prolonging the the loving is all part of the enjoyment for both partners.

Google "foreplay", "edging", "sexual anatomy", "Karma Sutra", or try something different from a page on Wikipedia.
Variety can certainly be the spice of life, and a man can last as long as he's willing.



[edit on 5/3/2008 by anxietydisorder]

Originally posted by AccessDenied

OH GOOD GRIEF!

You KNOW I'm joking right?
Haha I spend longer than that when I'm by myself

Originally posted by AGENT_T

Haha I spend longer than that when I'm by myself

oh that is just too funny!



And AD, your so right:

But prolonging the the loving is all part of the enjoyment for both partners.

It isn't just about penetration and if that is all it is, then urgh! Who would really want that?



[edit on 5-3-2008 by Thurisaz]

Originally posted by Thurisaz
It isn't just about penetration and if that is all it is, then urgh! Who would really want that?

Agreed. That's the 'functional' part of it all..

I can't say what my favourite part of the 'process' is as it's a family site.. but fair enough to say I don't suit a beard

Originally posted by Thurisaz

Could be medical or psychological issue.

My view is the person who is too quick isn't doing it enough.

If wearing him out doesn't fix it, well then obviously need to look at other treatment

I can assure you, in my case that my ex had no problems with not having it enough!
I had no time to wear him out! lol
He proved that he can atleast last 1o minutes when I broke up with him!

Okay, I'm going to zip it before I get in trouble!

Originally posted by Givenmay

Okay, I'm going to zip it before I get in trouble!

Yeah, I think I'll duck and cover before this topic gets me in trouble too.

Originally posted by anxietydisorder

Originally posted by Givenmay

Okay, I'm going to zip it ...

Yeah, I think I'll duck and cover...

Me too.. I'll call it a strategic withdrawal

Originally posted by AGENT_T
Me too.. I'll call it a strategic withdrawal

...way too funny, brilliant play on words.

I just laughed way out loud again for quite some time ..

reply to post by Givenmay


Love, what a wasted emotion on humans. both sides of the gender gap screw it up. I don't blame you at all for being gun shy. There is no reason to get involved with another person other than for intellectual sake. Our lives could be better spent on better things than love and sex.