posted on Mar, 1 2008 @ 06:12 PM
Welcome to ATS. I am sorry no one has replied to your post before now. Saturdays are kind of slow.
A very smart, very observant family member of mine who was a divorce attorney for twenty-five years once told me that, in general, women want to be
cherished and men want to be adored. When that balance is off, it usually ends up not working out.
Now, obviously based on her age, you are probably young as well so marriage is not the issue but she has clearly turned her attention elsewhere.
As a woman, I would venture to say that there is probably some other girl in your universe who does adore you...now, just let go of your girlfriend
and find out what other interesting people life holds for you.
You might be afraid of losing a "good thing" but I assure you, when something is meant to be yours, there is nothing you can do to screw it up and
when it's not meant to be yours, there is nothing you can do to keep it.