Originally posted by desertfaeI know what I'm doing, and can control that somewhat. I can't control what others do, and honestly, if
they do the wrong thing, that can get me or my family hurt.
If these be adults, they can choose whether to pick up your burden. If you are as honest with them as you are with me, your job is done. And truth be
told, since you have gone public with this, anyone, anywhere, could begin searching and researching, which may or may not result in your perceived
fears.
It is impossible to predict the impact, especially the long term ones. And you cannot hold yourself responsible for that, not to mean to be
irresponsible, but not to be responsible for what you cannot control. You are just going to have to keep the faith and learn to live with what
happens.
Maybe Sys_config is paranoid, but that could be an asset. There be many here who specialize in research, uncovering documents and exposing the truth.
In one way you do have an obligation to protect your family, but you also owe it to them to have a legacy.
And with such great resources at your disposal, you also owe it to yourself to delegate enough authority so you can get your life back. Who's gonna
care about the circumstances surrounding your father's death if you are a nobody? Take the promotions, buy a home, improve your living conditions,
and the seeds you plant in the interim will grow to fruition, both revealing those dark issues to the light of day and leaving a legacy your children
will be proud of.
My mentor, you know who he is, once told me, "Opperknockity tunes his guitar only once". I never forgot it.
