can anyone answer this

I was just wondering what do guys really want from women???? cause i'm at a loss on this one i thought i knew but i was so very wrong. So please give me a clue!!!

Originally posted by loverofmoses
I was just wondering what do guys really want from women???? cause i'm at a loss on this one i thought i knew but i was so very wrong. So please give me a clue!!!

loverofmoses i was gonna post the same question but replace the guys with gals and the women with men !!

My best answer is I wish I knew too.
Personally, and I feel you're coming from the same perspective, the number one thing I would look for is honesty.
With the big H between two people things are always easier.
I want a person who is genuine, honest, trustworthy and who will appreciate me for who I am.
Anything positive after that is a bonus.

well, to be relentlessly pampered with sex, food, beer, and more sex.... I thought it was obvious...?!?!

Well i do have a guy right now who is great and he is always honest with me.I'm going though a messy divorce and kids are involved and these to guys can't even be in the same room and be nice.They are at each others throats.He thinks he has to protect me from my ex.I guess it's just a guy thing that i will never understand..

Loves us for who we are, not who they think they can change us into...
Takes are side even when we are wrong...
It would be really nice if she had a sweet bod too.

well that sounds like a real guy anwser. I'm crazy for this guy and i cook for him i keep the house clean and the sex is off the hook if you know what i mean.i'm trying to change him i love him the way he is.

Do you get from him what you give to him? To me, being best friends along with mutual trust and respect is a solid foundation to build on. Don't try too hard or come on too strong because some guys will flee (it's a genetic thing). All guys are different but basically want a lady who is beautiful, sexy, intelligent, playful and loyal.

Originally posted by loverofmoses
I was just wondering what do guys really want from women????

It depends on the guy. The young guys have a member that is a lot like most women. They both love to go shopping for new things to wear.

In all honesty though, not all guys are the same as other guys.



If i were to ask you what women want, do you think your wants would be the same as every other woman's wants?

Just as you can not speak for each and every woman, i can not speak for each and every guy.

they are all unique. So, prioritizing what you would want in a man would seem to be a pre-requisite in answering your question.


What is it you want in a man? Find that kind of man. Find out what his likes and dislikes are, and learn together.

this is my .02

with inflation, it might be worth alot more in the distant future.

in the mean time .... I like honesty and a woman who speaks her mind, not purposely testing mine.

I'm going to go and break the male code and tell you what we want. It's really very simple but, sadly, the complex make-up of most women make it nearly impossible to comprehend and provide these simple things.

1. we want sex. contrary to what people might say, it is our most basic need and want. It is why the porn industry is so large. Unlike most women who can store a good orgasm like a camel and go for days, weeks and even months without another one, we finish and almost immediately are wanting another. I say almost because..

2. we want sleep. we don't want to discuss the day when our head is on the pillow. we don't want to talk about the good deal she got on shoes that afternoon or how katie from accounting is a hateful bitch or whatever.

3. we want to not shop. sure we all love a good deal from time to time and we all need to hit the stores but a guy who looks forward to watching his woman try on and reject 843 pairs of shoes is a guy with a foot fetish and you might want to check his pc for other kinky fetishes.

4. we want to eat. some more than others (you know who you are fatties). We want food on the table or in the fridge. It doesn't have to be prepared by you but it has to be available. This goes for almost all essential items in the house. Yes, we are capable of getting these things ourselves and many of us will do so but we need to be told if we are running out or in need of said items.

5. Sex. It should be noted again because if you give us plenty of sex the other stuff is really not going to matter as much.

6. nag-free zones. not much needs to be said other than nobody likes to be pestered and whined at about anything. general rule, if it annoys you, it probably annoys me.

7. sex. I know, I said it twice but, well, it's on my mind. I'm a guy. Deal with it.