posted on Feb, 9 2007 @ 11:19 AM
Okay so you think you love this young lady, and want to marry her. I’m not belittling your feelings; it all feel like love at your age. You will
feel that over, and over again.
I got married when I was 18, had my first child at 19, the second child at 22. I wouldn’t take it back because I love those kids of mine, but I do
sometimes wish I had waited…gone and done some traveling, and other various things.
Sometimes people get married, because they are in a situation that they desperately want to escape, i.e. bossy parents, alcoholic parents,
abusive…and many other things too. I hope that isn’t your situation, I have to agree with mechanic….enjoy your youth, you are only young
once. You will have many puppy loves, they are real experiences, but they often fade…and someone else will pop into your life.
My Son is 16; I think I would have a stroke. Now I expect marriage in the near future for my daughter, she’s almost 20, and starting to desire such
things…I still think she should wait a little but, but if the right guy comes along, more power to her. Right now, she has too many choices and
plenty of looking suitors, and she’s keeping all her doors open. That’s a smart move