Originally posted by Jovi1
Umm hello engaged to a guy in a distant land? are you slightly retarded or something if she didnt mention it and aint wearing a ring then that isnt
really what she wants so go after it.
I'm going to have to say the same here. If she told you that she loves you, then asked you if you love her, then she is most likely interested in
you. The only reason i could see her doing this is she wasn't is if you broke her heart or something and now she is trying to get revenge.
But seriously, engaged to a guy that is in Croatia? If she hasn't said anything to you buy now about it then i'm going to say that she doesn't
really want to be with him, maybe she did at one time but has now had a change of heart.
The only thing i'm not too sure about is why she asked you if you love her. That doesn't seem too typical, but she could just be unique. What i mean
is that i've learned that women who are unsure of you're feelings for them usually aren't that direct, they try to feel it out for themselves, but
she could be different.
I would say that if you do have strong feelings for her, then maybe you two should have a serious talk to see if she means it in that way. I've also
known people that say that to all of their friends, but as i don't know her i can't really say what she is getting at here.
If you want to be with her, then by all means go for it, but i would suggest using a bit of caution until you are sure she really feels this way.
If you don't want to be in a relationship with her, then let her know that you only want to be friends but don't be too harsh about it.
First you need to find out how you truly feel about her, if you could be with her would you, and do you really enjoy being with her. Then, find out
how she feels. Once you know how you feel about her i believe it will be easier for you to handle the situation.
If you truly want to be with her, don't let an opportunity pass you by, you may regret it for the rest of your life. You are either going to end up
being with her or not, if you do nothing then you know for sure what the outcome will be, so why not take a chance?
The decision is of course totally up to you, but i hope that i have helped you with clearing your mind in order to make that decision.
Good luck with whatever you do decide.