posted on Nov, 17 2003 @ 05:35 AM
I split with my girlfriend of two and a half years, six weeks ago. I'm enjoying a bit of freedom and space, but there is a new girl I like, we get on
great, It's clear we both like each other, but of course things are never this simple. She has a boyfriend, not only that, but I know him, not a
close friend by any means but I know him pretty well.
I've only known her for about a month but we have a real laugh together and my friends and her friends all say in private that we should get
together. Before I get accused of being a scumbag trying to steal someone's girl, this girl and I live in London while her boyfriend lives in Wales!
On top of that I know another girl this boy went out with for a couple of years, and he treated her like crap, so maybe he doesn't treat this girl I
like very well either.
I spoke to her best friend the other day, she said we need to have a talk to sort things out, but I think if I put her on the spot, she will take the
easy way out and blow me out. However if I just carry on getting to know her maybe she'll realise that the grass is greener on the other side
herself. I really like this girl, but feel a bit bad about the whole situation.
So, should I confront her and risk ending our relationship before it even starts or play the waiting game and see how things pan out?
All advice is welcome, this is uncharted territory for me.