posted on Apr, 4 2006 @ 09:58 PM
Maybe you could do this, or ask the teacher to put her in with the lower deeper voices, even those who could not sing in our choir but loved singing
we had Mercy and treated those like We Would Want To Be Treated! By putting them with the lower & telling them they are better gifted at obtaining
lower notes than higher - helped extremley of not setting the whole choir off key or crushing their feelings. That may be the Answer, to a
Someone stated before that they sensed Jealousy, I ask you to just take a step back and check that with yourself! I know people can annoy us, I'm
sure I have annoyed some on here for instance, I try not too, but we can't please everyone. And if we don't please some, simply avoid them! The
same with people that rub us the wrong way!
You say your her friend, but only because you felt sorry for her, really your not doing her a justice by that, but deep down your not her friend and
you already know that! Otherwise you wouldn't be ranting how frustrated you are! You did point out several problems you felt with her, it did lead
to personal issues and not just about the Choir!
Let me ask you a question that I felt that Could Be the underlying factor here!
Is the problem, from her speaking with your fiancee or perhaps she was flirting with your fiancee that brought on all of this? Or was he flirting
with her or speaking with her? You did point that out very strongly that she would never have a chance at obsessing him. Seems like their is
something there you may be afraid of.
I think their is more to this, and other's here also feel that, I don't think we all can be wrong.
You should do her this justice and step away, if you cannot find it in your heart to sit down with her and be honest. You may find out the reasons
she is the way she is, and it's probably because no one really has given her the time of day. I also feel she knows your friendship with her is far
from sincere! Believe me one knows when it's not.
This may help you, along with what other's have said on here, or you can continue to let this fret until all heck brakes loose. Here's hoping you
find a peaceful solution!
[edit on 4-4-2006 by AngelWings9999]