Originally posted by junglejake
You may also be focusing on the wrong people. It's sad and annoying, but people are usually a lot more vocal with criticizing than they are with
admiration. You're hearing "where's his Lamborghini" and "what a dork," but your not hearing the thoughts of those who admire you or are
interested in you.
Good point jj,
The other thing is he is already conditioned just like the other's to focus on the wrong attributes despite their emptiness and shallow
Where i'm from, high school jocks don't exist, you have those that think they are jocks and are cool, but people at my school knew enough that they
were the loser's so to speak. Those people that think they are jocks are the most self conscious people in the school, these are the people that have
more self doubt then anyone else, and they may take it out and project it onto others. Obviously your above them, don't put yourself on their level,
you'll just bring yourself down.
One should ask themself, 'what do I want' wisemen say if you ask you shall recieve. ask yourself these questions, the answers will come.
I don't know what you do in your spare time or even at school, but it would be healthy for you to get more socially involved in school activities, in
and outside of school.
When I was your age, me and my friends would go to all age nights at the clubs and thats where I picked my boyfriend up for 3 years.
The other place to meet people your age is at the theatre or the mall, bowling alleys, hockey games at junior b games, and maybe even the library if
you kids still go there.
Your personality should guide you to a girl with a similar personality.
But you must de program yourself, change your thought process, and do some introspection. You will find her and when you do you will notice that you
don't have to pretend to be anything your not, the conversation will flow, and your heart will feel content around her.
give it time, don't rush.