posted on Sep, 28 2005 @ 03:18 PM
Asking her whom she likes is basically saying "how am I doing?" And it projects low confidence.
You should never give someone besides your family that kind of power (and not even some of them.)
Don't ever ask "do you love me?" or lesser versions "Where to we stand?"
Just know, that if you wonder, then you rank pretty low. Don't be offended. Just decide whether you want to change the status, or move on.
Basically, in every relationship. you train people in how to treat you. What you will put up with is what the other person is rewarded for.
If someone mistreats you, and you stick around, you're basically giving them permission for whatever they want.
On the other hand. If she's not wearing your letter jacket, she's not really yours to get jealous over.