As a historical note:
Cleopatra lost. Really, any reading of history shows that she was totally played-out by the Romans... Due to her foolishness, Egypt was annexed by
the Romans.
Joan of Ark was known for commanding attacks against English fortifications that resulted in the loss of over 50% of her forces, at any given time...
still, I commend her bravery.
...Just thought you guys might want to look for female leaders who were'nt losers.
PS I'm not taking FM's side, just responding to what you've mentioned already.