How would you solve this

a reply to: 1Angrylightbulb

In UK law any person with parental responsibility has a legal right to participate in decisions taken about who the child will live with .
Why might these lodgers be difficult with someone which they should know carries that right . Without provision of basic information this right could not be upheld .

I see our OP has left the building. He must not have received the answers he was hoping for.

a reply to: DoctorBluechip

where a dispute arises through disagreement it is then remedied by the family courts, where child welfare is concerned. a slow and potentially expensive process.

as the original op is edited, i am speculating that you have a dispute with your ex-partner (primary carer) and you dwell elsewhere. that there are lodgers in the primary dwelling and you have reservations about their tenureship at that abode.

if these concerns continue to pervade, a letter to social services would be a good start to address any issues, however it would be sensible to discuss this with your ex (if possible) in a calm manner before initiating any outside services engagement.
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I would ask phage. He could sort out anything I think.

a reply to: DoctorBluechip

Torch the house when everyones out for icecream and rebuild with the insurance money.