What is it that the presupposed "illuminati" or indeed the 'established elite' might have against age-gap relationships ? We're talking adults only
here of course .
The millenial generation has been installed with some strange ideas quite alien to common sense , for example the idea that someone under 26 years old
simply 'cannot' or 'could not' become involved romantically with someone who's 42 or so .
Then again the millenials seem to know a whole plethora of 'can't's' when in fact of course you can . It's been said they know full well how to not
get sacked but often turn up no good at actually doing some work .
When it comes to age gap relationships , society is full of frowns , "how strange" s , and "it shouldn;t be"s . Word is , that online dating sites
routinely exclude the youngers from the olders and vice-versa . So they can't communicate , even to extent of physically blocking the exchange of mail
So then ... why is that ? Where and how has it been installed in us to give up on the mixing of age groups and genders ? It may find it's roots in the
anti-family traits of modern western states , in economic separation for the purposes of deeper exploitation of the workforce as individuals split
from blood ties , and split from family and community ethics , to divide from cultural roots and natural necessities as has been the notion in the
forced participation of labour . Most people have no idea how far these things hae gone , the lengths they have to design your lives .
Furthermore , it does serve the purpose of splitting down people's relationships for advanced capitalist economics to deny age gap relationships . For
first and foremost consider the realities - an older male or female partner has already gained over years in experience , assets , funds , contacts ,
living arrangements , transport considerations , local knowledge etc etc all of which would likely be shared with a partner who had less of these
attributes simply from being younger . Think of the advantages an older partner is likely to bestow to the younger inlater years .
In days gone by , those of chivalry and feudal serfdom , older ladies tended to become the keepers of castles and mansion houses belong to the crown ,
and oftentimes their suitors would be younger , fitter , stronger , able to defend her . And if not , a new one would be sought . By necessity these
were beneficial but nonetheless also romantic sexual relationships in a similar manner , and beneficial relationships are what you want , not just
adequate arrangements .
What a younger partner could/can bring to steady relationships which can still exist in this age is energy , a fresh point of view , friends from
diferent social groups and some spirit of renewal . If she for example gained from overall wiser guidance then so would a child benefit , perhaps also
taking a larger or more welcome inheritance . Energy not controlled but directed wisely gains results , fruitful benefits of collaboration with
So explicitly speaking , why would they say , "No you can't" , why would it become a frowned upon taboo when actually it's a good idea ?
Because they don't want you to , that is why .
Why do;t they want you to ? - Because they can;t exploit you as easily if they let you
Why can't they exploit you as easily ? - Because you're not in such a vulnerable position as before . You have crossed a purposefully created social
divide and hence have a wider support base .
How would this have been instituted in the Western civilisations ? It's a question of historical social engineering . Consider marriage - polygamy is
- kind of- illegal . You're expected , to marry a contemporary peer . That's because of the church , christians . Because of that factor you have the
days of the week , and education . So partly we're stuck in a foregone conclusion . But you not being allowed to break out of it easily , its suits
the modern capitalist ethos to keep you in bondage of some kind - this kind being spoken of today .
Those around you will be the trouble to you at first , if you started an age gap relationship of any significance . The yes we can had better win over
all the no you can'ts , or forget it . A relationship or individual perhaps driven into embarrassment , secrecy, isolation, confinement and even legal
disputes and violent assaults has to find it's own ways to survive , especially with the constant twitter of media socialites , the overlookings of
various peers and their sometimes aspic attitudes . You need to make it survive effectively saying 'hard-cheese' to the rest .
It's supposed the way to end should be to say , f-em , you know ? If that's what floats your boat , even if just for the time being , then so be it ,
don;t let anyone say you can't when really , you CAN . There is no reason for it not to be if you don;t let 'them' get to it first . Give it 6 months
, they'll get used to it . It's happened before , will do again . Then again if you're young , then be careful . There are wolves in sheeps clothing
to beware of too , don't just go trusting anyone , but just because someone's older doesn't make them any meaner . Mean people are often born mean .
You can tell if someone is kind . Keep an even keel and an open mind is probably the best advice , and don't be held back by the jealous or iniquitous
edit on 9-11-2018 by DoctorBluechip because: (no reason given)