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I don't think he tried to help me. He just labeled and moved on and with the attitude he had.
Sorry but I only thing I could do was just to reflect.
To understand more about your situation get yourself a basic education in social transactional analysis starting with the classic Games People Play by Eric Berne. This is a treatise that was published decades ago that gives you the basic layout of role based transaction in social situations and was published both in dense psychological study format and a more popular culture paperback type format. Start with the watered down version and if it piques your interest move on to the more dense academic targeted format.