posted on Jul, 11 2016 @ 05:32 AM
My husband and I have always had that best friend type of relationship, and that has gotten stronger over years.
It's kind of funny, after so many years together, I've even lost that jealousy and insecurity I had at first (and with men before him). Would you be
jealous of your best friend enjoying romantic or sexual experiences with another???
As long as he remains just as invested and involved in our relationship, it actually wouldn't bother me too much.
I know that sounds weird, I surprise even myself when I realize that. I can kind of understand better the gay couples we know who are much more open
about their relationships.
That is just one angle that I have found surprising with time, I did not expect it.
But basically, yeah, my husband and I have always been accomplices in childish antics. Our kids shake their heads and call us a couple of kids. We're
capable of going off on a impromptu scavenger hunt, or often go to car or air shows in themed costumes. It is this spark of adventure that bonds us, I
Too many expectations and seriousness can kill that friendly love that is just as essential as the sexual part.
edit on 11-7-2016 by Bluesma
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