It may not be over. I once reunited with a girl after not seeing each other for 8 years. The same thing happened with another girl after 7 years
But even if it is "over" look at it this way, every "failed" relationship is there to teach you the lessons to be a better husband and lover for when
you find "The One". Sure, there are cases where high school sweethearts lose their virginity to eachother and stay together until they die... But in
My personal exlerience... I'm GLAD for all the heartache and "failed relationships" I've endured over the years. I would not want to have met the lady
I'm with now, when I was the person I was back before I had gained all those experience points. I was definitely NOT WORTHY. I'm wiser now, and I have
the insight to actually appreciate her for everything she is.
I've cried over girls, nearly going insane and sometimes going temporarily insane over a few, thinking they were the one... Ha... I can laugh about it
now. I did things I'm too embarassed to admit in the pursuit of some of these girls, trying to win their hearts back. But today, I thank God up in
Heaven every day for them Not taking me back... because then I would never have found The One. She is a thousand times better than any girl I've ever
dated, in every way.
You are a man of God, yes? Then Trust in His plan, my friend! I KNOW you have a good heart. I can sense that. And because of that, God has happiness
waiting for you.
But in the meantime... Do grieve over your lost love! Feel that pain! Let it stay with you...until you are ready to discard it... it will serve you
well... when you find The One. Then you will treat her like the queen she deserves to be treated like, because that's what she will be to you, your
queen, as you will be her king.
God's plan is very intricate, with many twists and turns, and one day you will look back and realize you necer would have ended up with your queen if
just one of those turns had gone the other way. Even your mistakes you are currently making are leading you down that path to where you will find your
PM me if you want to talk more, I'd love to hear more if you're in a talking mood, if you're not, then I totally understand that too. Just please
don't do anything you cannot take back. All is not lost, I promise you as it were a promise from God.
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