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originally posted by: mysterioustranger
a reply to: mblahnikluver
Go to those family members and ask each for $500 and that you really really need it.....Tell them since hubby is away he said to ask them for it from when he lent it to them.
Watch what happens!
originally posted by: mysterioustranger
a reply to: mblahnikluver
Go to those family members and ask each for $500 and that you really really need it.....Tell them since hubby is away he said to ask them for it from when he lent it to them.
Watch what happens!
originally posted by: g146541
a reply to: mblahnikluver
By you guys living on one income, you mean he supports you or you support him?
If you support him I can see your problem, if not then...
If my Mom needed or even wanted ANYTHING I have it would be hers.
My wife would have nothing to complain about either, that girl has more accessories than Barbie.
No really, I make sure she gets what she wants, she knows this and reciprocates.
originally posted by: mblahnikluver
originally posted by: g146541
a reply to: mblahnikluver
By you guys living on one income, you mean he supports you or you support him?
If you support him I can see your problem, if not then...
If my Mom needed or even wanted ANYTHING I have it would be hers.
My wife would have nothing to complain about either, that girl has more accessories than Barbie.
No really, I make sure she gets what she wants, she knows this and reciprocates.
He supports HIS family meaning myself and HIS son.
His mother can get a life of her own and stop mooching off of him. She doesn't NEED anything. She is manipulating him. There is a HUGE difference between needing and manipulation. If she did actually need something I'd understand but she doesn't and THAT is what bothers me. She knows he will give her money if she plays the right cards with him. It is pathetic and WRONG.
Clearly you didn't read the thread...
originally posted by: paraphi
My suggestion is to live with it.
Your opinion and view of your husband's family may cause friction, so let it be.
My wife can be very critical about the way my side of the family functions, and I am guilty of not telling her some family politics, because I just cannot be bothered to explain.
For example, my brother's wife had an affair and when my wife found out she turned on me for not telling her! She did not understand that something's are just not for discussion, moralising and judgement and the fact that she then spent a year moralising and judging proved my point.
Regards
originally posted by: earthblaze
If you had been going through messages on my old phone I would be very angry ... in fact that would tell me there is a serious trust issue. What you did was underhanded.
His relationship with his mother has nothing to do with you. That relationship was there a long time before you were.
You sound very controlling in my opinion. I wouldn't live with you!