reply to post by aryaputhra
1. Bullies will be bullies,most that I have come across come from abusive homes.They take they're anger out on the other kids as they can't inflict
the pain on the adult that is abusing them.
2.In any society you will have bullies as it is part of the human condition.There will always be those that are more aggressive than the rest of the
3.What has changed is that kids go to school and those that wish to 'do the right thing' find themselves being bullied and the school is telling them
not to do anything about it.The parents don't tell them how to deal with it due to they're own ignorance or beliefs,so the child is left out in the
cold being tortured with no way out(or so it seems).
4. There is no sense in raising pacifistic children when the gov. can and in time WILL take your kids and try to make killers out of them for they're
Having been both bullied and been the one doing the bullying (to those that were torturing disabled children) I had to learn how to deal with them
even though I had been pacifistic up until middle school. I kept getting beat up and coming home crying.My mom just shrugged and didn't know what to
do,it was when I went to my dad that he told me he had been teaching me how to fight since I was 4 years old for a reason,and I needed to use what I
was taught and defend myself.
My father was a former street fighter (not a gang member),Korean war vet and had a stop over in Japan while recovering from an injury in Korea, he
was there for several months and spent his time talking to a master in Ju jitsu .He compared fighting styles and movements with the master to share
what he had learned as well as learn from the master.And this is what he taught me.
The fact is, you will never be able to dictate to parents how to raise they're kids,those that will be abusive will do so no matter what the law.Just
look at the news everyday and you'll see this for a fact.Therefore you will have bullies no matter what happens.
I have known kids that were being tortured by bullies and I tried to encourage them to stand up for themselves to back the bully down.But there will
always be kids that have learned to be victims.
If you look at our closest relatives chimps you will see at times bullying going on between them.Teach your kids how to deal with them.If they get in
trouble at school for defending themselves support them .If the school had they're way, no one would ever be able to defend themselves and would make
the perfect victim.The schools aren't paying for your kid's therapy.There will be times in the adult world when they will have to protect themselves
and stand up for themselves.They have to learn this in childhood.
edit on 14-10-2013 by Dimithae because: (no reason given)