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Originally posted by stormdancer777
reply to post by benrl
to this day he still hates you?
Some people are just like that, you can never get through to them.
Firm and Calm is far more intimidating than irrational and crazy.
I agree but
Sometimes I go from firm and calm to irrational and crazy.
He was ranting in my face, and I am calmly telling him lets discuss and reason like men, not argue like teenagers.
Originally posted by intrptr
reply to post by benrl
He was ranting in my face, and I am calmly telling him lets discuss and reason like men, not argue like teenagers.
Thats really hard when abusive people try to pull you out of your nice place. As if they will feel better that they can drag you down to their level. They set out to prove others aren't nice to justify their own behavior.
Twisted minds.
Back to front top to bottom world where these kinds of people rise to the top and take over, imposing their will upon the rest of the world.
Even when people are rude or mean, I treat them kindly, but firm.
Originally posted by intrptr
reply to post by benrl
Even when people are rude or mean, I treat them kindly, but firm.
As long as we live in a nice world. When people are victimized like rape or child abuse, its harder to be nice.
This is a "nice" thread.
When someone brings one about some guy raping and murdering a little girl, you watch how they turn to murderous revenge. In a heartbeat.
Originally posted by TDawgRex
reply to post by benrl
I've met plenty of Dad's like that. Their daughter is after all, Daddy's little girl. I've always considered it as part of the test that Dads giver prospective Son-in-Laws.
But if they keep it up, I let them know in no uncertain terms that I won't up with it either similar to you. Then I let the girlfriend know about how I am being treated and how I will no longer put up with it. Those relationships have never lasted and I'm probably better off for it.
But because I can be "nice" many an ex and her family stay in touch through the years.
No matter what "issues" may have driven the murder or rapist to their crime, abuse etc, they need to be put down humanely for the good of us all.
Whats not nice about that?
Originally posted by intrptr
reply to post by benrl
No matter what "issues" may have driven the murder or rapist to their crime, abuse etc, they need to be put down humanely for the good of us all.
Whats not nice about that?
Expedient more than "nice". What if the reason they do that is that it was done to them and they know no different? What if they can't help themselves (like an addict) but a little love might ease their pain and begin a healing process?
Lets see, what costs the state more, execution or counseling?
I also get the incorrigible bit. I agree there. My point was more to forgiveness. Whats nicer than that? You watch the court trials when verdicts are read. People scream. I am appalled.
nice
nīs/Submit
adjective
1.
pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory.
"we had a nice time"
synonyms: enjoyable, pleasant, agreeable, good, satisfying, gratifying, delightful, marvelous; More
antonyms: unpleasant
(of a person) pleasant in manner; good-natured; kind.
"he's a really nice guy"
synonyms: pleasant, likable, agreeable, personable, congenial, amiable, affable, genial, friendly, charming, delightful, engaging; More
antonyms: nasty
2.
fine or subtle.
"a nice distinction"
synonyms: subtle, fine, delicate, minute, precise, strict, close; More
Originally posted by stormdancer777
Don't ever do this, and never ask for patience.]
Originally posted by LifeIsEnergy
reply to post by FlyersFan
Yes, they were murdered, but I don't see your point. Are you saying people should not remain morally consistent in the face of danger?
LifeIsEnergy
reply to post by stormdancer777
It is only "supernatural" to you because you were overcome by your own angers, intolerances and temptations. Don't blame others for your own short-comings.
Maybe these people being martyrs for good did more good by dying than they could by living and 'hitting back'.