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We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.
If you love someone unconditionally, then what's the difference? It's unconditional.
Originally posted by artistpoet
Some one who lies to others lies also to themselves -
Is it fear that someone will see another for who they truly are and yet who we all truly are in soul is most wonderful.
From the cradle to the grave we are taught to hide our true feelings for fear of social outcasting or ridicule- it is a sheep like mentality.
We are all taught to wear masks and adopt labels.
If we were taught to love all unconditionally then this would turn everything around.
Just be careful with whom you share your inner self for some will use it against you - I say be honest but also learn discretion.
edit on 3-4-2012 by artistpoet because: typo
Originally posted by Wonders
If you love someone unconditionally, then what's the difference? It's unconditional.
unconditional (adj) - Bing Dictionary
un·con·di·tion·al [ ùnkən díshən'l ]
with no conditions or limitations: complete or guaranteed, with no conditions, limitations, or provisos attached
Synonyms: unqualified, total, categorical, absolute, unrestricted, unreserved
If people have standards, and they do, then how can their love be without standard. Most people would agree that women should not be abused by their husbands/boyfriends, if she stays with her abuser, does his dishes, cooks for him..ect.. and calls it love, then can she be considered someone "taught to love all unconditionally"?
According to your logic, under what conditions does the term "unconditional love" have merit?
Originally posted by ottobot
Originally posted by Wonders
If you love someone unconditionally, then what's the difference? It's unconditional.
unconditional (adj) - Bing Dictionary
un·con·di·tion·al [ ùnkən díshən'l ]
with no conditions or limitations: complete or guaranteed, with no conditions, limitations, or provisos attached
Synonyms: unqualified, total, categorical, absolute, unrestricted, unreserved
If people have standards, and they do, then how can their love be without standard. Most people would agree that women should not be abused by their husbands/boyfriends, if she stays with her abuser, does his dishes, cooks for him..ect.. and calls it love, then can she be considered someone "taught to love all unconditionally"?
No, this means she is afraid. She also does not love herself, and likely does not love the abuser as the abuser is hurting her. Thus, she cannot love unconditionally.
Now, it could be said that she has been "trained to fear all unconditionally", because she has been broken to the point of doing whatever she can to make the abuser [and, likely, other people] happy, even when the abuser is doing nothing to cause fear.
Originally posted by Wonders
According to your logic, under what conditions does the term "unconditional love" have merit?
Originally posted by soficrow
Just to be clear, this thread is about honesty, not love.
Also, while honesty is required in Christianity, as it is in virtually every major religion and cultural movement, the concept did NOT originate with Christ.
Originally posted by soficrow
Just to be clear, this thread is about honesty, not love.
Also, while honesty is required in Christianity, as it is in virtually every major religion and cultural movement, the concept did NOT originate with Christ.
...I just have a difficult time understanding how one can effectively be honest - and I mean consistently - if they are not coming from a point of love.