posted on Mar, 18 2011 @ 09:07 PM
I agree with a lot of your points. I'm a 41 year old mother of two who works with children as well. One of the things I see a lot in my work are kids
who are highly influenced by TV and video games. It seems like parents have gotten very laizez faire with what kids watch and play. The day I
witnessed preschoolers playing Twilight and knowing the whole storyline, I started to lose faith in society. Maybe Twilight isn't a bad thing, but
come on, these are 3 and 4 year-olds. I see a lot of Hannah Montana, whatever is hot for Disney at the time, etc. It's kind of sad, because at show
and tell, these are the things we always see-the commercialized parts of the TV obsession. Sometimes, I check backpacks and find crafts and papers
from days ago still in there. Do the parents not care or have time? Why have kids then? The kids get so excited when they make something, usually
telling me that they are giving it to mom or dad. I guess I don't get it because I've always taken time with my kids. And I don't think it stops
when they enter high school either. I still get involved at school and at home. I've also allowed my kids to make mistakes, work out solutions
themselves, etc. They know I'm here if they need me and they come to me with important problems. We have a mother where I work who always tries to
negotiate with her son. Obviously, that doesn't work. I think you are on a good path with most of your ideas. The one about drugs, I don't agree
with. I started alcohol and drug education with my kids young and I practice what I preach. We live in an alcohol free home. That is probably the
biggest deterrent I know of for kids. My kids know about and understand the family history of alcohol abuse. They know the risk they will be taking if
they experiment and how lives can be forever changed and damaged by that first drink. My daughter gave the speech for her school's DARE program.
I've never been more proud of her as she spoke of how her life was affected by alcohol. There was some painful stuff there, but she presented it
with a dignity that you see in few adults. My hope is, of course, that my kids will avoid alcohol and drugs completely. If I caught them using it,
discipline would be swift and sure, mainly because they are underage. Later in life, if it's something they choose, I can't really stop them, but I
have given them tools to help make reasonable, well educated decisions. They have so much more than the kid that only sees the "good times" these
things can bring to them.