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Originally posted by ziggystar60
Originally posted by mellisamouse
I have never been a feminist, and would be forever greatful for a male role modle for my son, instead of the dead beat, drunken abusive embarrassment I now cannot get out of my life.....
You know, if you HAD been a feminist, perhaps that would have gotten you mad enough to get that drunken and abusive person out of your life a long time ago.
And remember that as long as you are letting this person pester your life, you are sending the wrong message to your son. You are already providing him with a lousy male role model, teaching him that it is OK for men to be dead beats and abusive. You are also teaching your son that women will put up with it.
Get this low life out of your life, not only for your own sake, but also for the sake of your son.
Originally posted by mamabeth
Originally posted by mellisamouse
If I got to meet a real man, I would worship the ground he walks on. I have never been a feminist, and would be forever greatful for a male role modle for my son, instead of the dead beat, drunken abusive embarrassment I now cannot get out of my life.....
With the exception of the drunken part,you described my first husband!
Ex-husbands, are like that wad of gum you can't quite get off from the
bottom of your shoe!
If you have children with them,they think they have branded you for life
as their personal property. I divorced this sorry loser,learned he was just
a bully,went on with my life.I put my neck in a noose once(marriage),I
was going to think twice first.
Twenty-five years later,I meet and marry a wonderful man!