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It seems if the mother is punching the dad, that the home life is probably pretty damn unstable anyway. Im sure there is more to it than you have mentioned.
Originally posted by TONE23
Personally one of the biggest problems that I can see(at least here in America) is that DCS(Department of Child Services) has gone, IMO, a little overboard. As a society we are no longer permitted to "hit" our children.
When I was kid and I got out of line, my mom or dad would not hesitate to give me the belt or a qooden spoon(in my teen years.) Neither of which were abusive or brutal; just enough to get the message across.
This time-out crap is, to me, just that; crap. Your children respect you when they fear you(im not saying terrified and abusive) just a little fear.
It is way to often in life when people(kids and adults, alike) mistake kindness for weakness and thusly take advantage of that kindness. Alot of times(not always) People will only respect you out of fear.
Im certainly not advocating abuse, but a firm butt-whoopin is in order for alot of these kids.
and thats about my $.02
Originally posted by snowflake_obsidian
I do agree with you there. However it is actually perfectly legal to smack your kid on the bottom with either your hand or another object as long as it doesn't leave a bruise. I was told that by a police officer. I have noticed however that spankings don't have the effect that they used to have either. It either makes the kid mad and act up more or they just laugh in your face.
original quote by:snowflake_obsidian
I have noticed however that spankings don't have the effect that they used to have either. It either makes the kid mad and act up more or they just laugh in your face.
Originally posted by WolfofWar
The DCS is there for a reason, to protect children. And while to you it may look like they are on a witchhunt, they are just trying to take every case seriously. You never know which one is real, and how life endangering it may be for the child.
Originally posted by snowflake_obsidian
I personally think that the DCS are poorly trained and many Child Protection workers are in it for the wrong reasons. Many parents who really ARE abusing their children know exactly how to act and what to say when DCS come around and they don't see through it.
Originally posted by WolfofWar
So we should get rid of the police force because the true criminals, rapists, and murderers "Know how to get out of it?"