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Originally posted by WolfofWar
Interesting, isn't that what happens when parents work away, leaving children alone and unattended, or attended by a stranger...
When both parents work 9 to 5, whos becoming the parental figure?
And when both are working 9 to 5, whos teaching them morals?
Originally posted by WolfofWar
Again, your under the assumption of a perfect world.
Myth no. 1
Childcare dilutes the influence parents have on their children
Myth no. 2
Children have stronger bonds with parents who stay home than they do with parents who work full time outside the home
Myth no. 3
Children who have a stay-at-home parent develop better
A new study, published in the March issue of the journal Developmental Psychology, has exonerated mothers from charges of causing harm to their children by working. Reported by Elizabeth Harvey, a psychologist at the University of Massachusetts, the findings suggest that even children who were babies when their mothers started back to work did not suffer because of their moms' absence. Harvey evaluated the development and health of more than 6,000 youngsters, using data from the National Longitudinal Survey of Youth.
Myth no. 2
Children have stronger bonds with parents who stay home than they do with parents who work full time outside the home
In general it was found that childcare does not interfere with the attachment a child has to his or her parents.
However, there was one proviso here: researchers found that parents who had a secure relationship with their child before starting childcare did not need to worry about the effects of childcare on their relationship. However, for those children whose relationship with their parents was not so secure, childcare could pose some risks, which were increased if the childcare was full time, of poor quality and if it started at a very early age.
Handbag.com (HB link).
Originally posted by Boatphone
However, for those children whose relationship with their parents was not so secure, childcare could pose some risks, which were increased if the childcare was full time, of poor quality and if it started at a very early age.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Your point?
Originally posted by Boatphone
Just ask any small child if he or she would like to speand the day with mom or dad, orbabysitter. You will find that they will want to speand time with there parents.
It seems that the website "handbag.com" does not address the important high school years, where kids are too old for daycare, or full time sitters. If there are no parents home kids are likey to get into trouble; with sex, drugs or drinking.
Although conflict between the more liberal and the more conservative branches of the feminist movement continues, the fact is that quite quickly feminism (or at least the more widely publicized liberal branch of the movement) has seemed to change its stance against sexual depersonalization to one that favors embracing everything from prostitution to pornography as venues for women's "taking control of" or "owning" their sexuality. ("Sexuality" here, it should be noted, has been redefined to mean, not how women interact in fundamentally human and potentially regenerative relationships with real-world human sex partners, but the sexual images and representations of themselves and the sexual services they — women — are willing to perform in exchange for money.)
Indeed, the authors who contributed essays to the book, "Liberty For Women," edited by Wendy McElroy, virtually universally support women's "freedom of choice," by which it seems is meant the right of women to do everything from bear arms to participate in the making of pornographic films to engage in prostitution, and damn the torpedoes (sorry). This certainly seems to me to be a somewhat radical departure from the view that all of the above-mentioned activities run decidedly counter to women's interests, at least if they wish to escape the influence of their male controllers.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Oh, really? I'd like to see your study on that because frankly, I think the kids would choose the babysitter any day! Parents are controlling and boring...
High school? That's 14-18 years old, right? And you're proposing that kids need to have their parents home when they get home (for those 2-3 hours after school) so they won't get into drugs and the sex...
Well, Boat, you live in an entirely different world than I do. That's about all I can say about that.
Originally posted by Boatphone
Um, well first if parents are not at home, kids can skip school and have the house to themselves. Also, drug use and other high risk activites are a real problem for teens.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
I would have to say that even though I was around and somewhat aware during the more conservative feminist movement, I have always been a more liberal feminist, meaning I don't have a problem with pornography, prostitution, etc.
I wonder how others feel about that.
Originally posted by parrhesia
Oh, and kids can't skip when their parents are home... nah.
Originally posted by Boatphone
Yes, I live in the real world and you live in the leftist world.
Originally posted by ceci2006
I have a question. What is it really about Teresa Heinz Kerry?
On another thread, I read another poster characterize her as having a "big mouth".
Dr. Rice and the First Lady: timid, demure and coddling
Why do women, in the public eye, get penalized for speaking out and being powerful? Is it less feminine to show your intelligence and speak out?
Or, can women be powerful and feminine too?