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originally posted by: chris_stibrany
How long have you been married?
I second with everyone that chimed in and said that he needs to get his # together .
a reply to: CaptainHook
originally posted by: KKLOCO
originally posted by: CaptainHook
a reply to: KKLOCO
What if he gets primary custody?
My bio father won custody from my mom due to lies and manipulation.
These days, It so rarely happens that a father gets primary custody. You’d have to be a drug addict and or a prostitute for that to happen in 2023.
My ex was caught perjuring herself on the stand over 40 times in the three days we were in court for the custody battle. She still got the kids….
You need to start documenting EVERYTHING. CRUCIALLY IMPORTANT!
originally posted by: KKLOCO
a reply to: CaptainHook
“What should I do?”
If everything you said is true, I regret to inform you that you married a narcissist. It won’t get better, it will get worse.
Divorce him while he’s got a decent job and get child support. Don’t wait for him to quit or get fired from that — then you’ll get nothing.
I know all too well. My ex is a narcissistic sociopath. Like I said, it will only get worse.
originally posted by: Saloon
a reply to: CaptainHook
The husband/fathers that have led successful lives in marriage.
Are the same ones that brought their pay home to their wife.
I'm gonna stop there because the rest is about what you feel.
But pray for your husband sweetheart.