posted on May, 10 2020 @ 01:48 PM
If it takes a virus excuse to not do that, then why don't you guys just come out with it and tell 'em what the real reason is? It's not really that
hard to present a case, and more often than not, people do listen to a frusterated vent, even family.
Honestly, if I were to read the post and not include the downsides you gave as a stand-in for maybe not saying any of it to anyone, I'd be inclined to
assume it's a standing road trip you enjoyed doing and that's why nothing's ever done differently on the part of others -- it's your travel MO and
seems to have always been, so why would anyone change it up? And maybe risk pissing grandma off over the insinuation that at her age, maybe she should
travel less and they should travel more or something, who knows what they'd think you'd take offense over -- my grandmother was a prime example
of the "Well, maybe we should come to you" suggestion going pear-shaped, "I'm not too damn old to drive or travel, thanks a lot for the insinuation."
Maybe they think you'd blow up at them like mine did, IDK.