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originally posted by: DanDanDat
So I was just given a larger than normal raise by the big tech company I've been working at for the last 17 years. I was given the raise after I told my employer that I had secured a job offer at another smaller tech company. My employer gave me the raise as a country offer to stay.
I should be happy; and I am but all so feel anxious, I have that butterfly feeling in the pit of my stomach; and I don't know why. I feel like something is wrong, or I did something wrong.
Maybe it's because I sorta extorted my company out of more money. But I have a good relationship with my immediate manager and he didn't act put out at all when i told him I was thinking about leaving.
Maybe its because I had to disappoint the smaller company; they were very enthusiastic for me to come work for them. They even wanted to know if I'd be open to a counter counter offer to leave my company. They've been really nice.
Maybe it's because I feel I should have made the two company's compete even more for me and that maybe I left money on the table.
Maybe its because I feel that life at the smaller company could have been better. a riskier road, but maybe more reward at the end of the road.
Man, seriously what's wrong with me?
originally posted by: DanDanDat
a reply to: MisterSpock
I think your right about that, feeling guilty about acting in my self interest. It's not a normal part of my behavior. I hope the guilt passes with time.
originally posted by: DanDanDat
a reply to: MisterSpock
That makes a lot of sense; thanks
originally posted by: DictionaryOfExcuses
a reply to: DanDanDat
I've never been in your position. Sounds like all you have is good things...people like you and want you around.
originally posted by: DictionaryOfExcuses
a reply to: MisterSpock
"Damn dude you got everything, just roll with it."
originally posted by: DictionaryOfExcuses
a reply to: MisterSpock
I'm one too. I swear it's magnetic and has nothing really to do with my personality. I've never held a job for longer than 6 months or been paid (appreciably) more than minimum wage. I read the OP and think "Damn dude you got everything, just roll with it."
Self deprecation aside, everyone undervalues themselves.
originally posted by: Lumenari
a reply to: MisterSpock
Self deprecation aside, everyone undervalues themselves.
Actually, always overvalue yourself and let others make the call.
It makes business life a whole lot easier.
originally posted by: MisterSpock
originally posted by: Lumenari
a reply to: MisterSpock
Self deprecation aside, everyone undervalues themselves.
Actually, always overvalue yourself and let others make the call.
It makes business life a whole lot easier.
That sounds easy to do...by day, but when night falls it's time to dance with the demons.
originally posted by: Lumenari
originally posted by: MisterSpock
originally posted by: Lumenari
a reply to: MisterSpock
Self deprecation aside, everyone undervalues themselves.
Actually, always overvalue yourself and let others make the call.
It makes business life a whole lot easier.
That sounds easy to do...by day, but when night falls it's time to dance with the demons.
A few years ago I was asked by a large company I was interested in doing business with if we could do _________.
I replied "Of course. We practically invented _______. What do you need?"
They told me, I went home and figured out with some phone calls and a little research online how to do it, we did it and now we are known for it.
Sometimes you need to just take that leap off the cliff and see where you land.
originally posted by: MisterSpock
originally posted by: Lumenari
originally posted by: MisterSpock
originally posted by: Lumenari
a reply to: MisterSpock
Self deprecation aside, everyone undervalues themselves.
Actually, always overvalue yourself and let others make the call.
It makes business life a whole lot easier.
That sounds easy to do...by day, but when night falls it's time to dance with the demons.
A few years ago I was asked by a large company I was interested in doing business with if we could do _________.
I replied "Of course. We practically invented _______. What do you need?"
They told me, I went home and figured out with some phone calls and a little research online how to do it, we did it and now we are known for it.
Sometimes you need to just take that leap off the cliff and see where you land.
Good advice, I'll think of it the next time I'm standing on the edge of a cliff trying to get the will to jump.
Thanks Lum, you literally gave me the push I needed to fall off the cliff...
originally posted by: Lumenari
originally posted by: MisterSpock
originally posted by: Lumenari
originally posted by: MisterSpock
originally posted by: Lumenari
a reply to: MisterSpock
Self deprecation aside, everyone undervalues themselves.
Actually, always overvalue yourself and let others make the call.
It makes business life a whole lot easier.
That sounds easy to do...by day, but when night falls it's time to dance with the demons.
A few years ago I was asked by a large company I was interested in doing business with if we could do _________.
I replied "Of course. We practically invented _______. What do you need?"
They told me, I went home and figured out with some phone calls and a little research online how to do it, we did it and now we are known for it.
Sometimes you need to just take that leap off the cliff and see where you land.
Good advice, I'll think of it the next time I'm standing on the edge of a cliff trying to get the will to jump.
Thanks Lum, you literally gave me the push I needed to fall off the cliff...
Well, it's about time!!!
~huggz~
originally posted by: DanDanDat
a reply to: MisterSpock
I think your right about that, feeling guilty about acting in my self interest. It's not a normal part of my behavior. I hope the guilt passes with time.