weakling

so here's the gist"

the other day i was in a coffee shop killing time and actually looking at facebook and i came across a face from along time ago, a girl , I asked her if she would like to get together sometime soon whatever she wanted to do, no pressure.

she responded to me but I'm nervous she turned me down and blew me off



im scared to see what she said.

originally posted by: penroc3

im scared to see what she said.

Grow a pair, bud.

a reply to: penroc3

Why, are you afraid she said yes? You are so screwed. hahahahahaha


....sorry, I am deranged.

a reply to: penroc3

Well I want to know what she said, so go look and let me know. Lol

Perhaps she's happily married and has a kid or three.

Perhaps she's on the rebound from a broken heart.

Perhaps she's a lesbian now.


Jeez, now *I'M* dyin' to know what she replied with!

a reply to: penroc3

You didn't ask her out on a date specifically did you? And so, it could come across that you just want to catch up for old time's sake. Friends and old acquaintances do that sort of thing. So check! Get out of the house, enjoy some chit chat, go home and consider it a nice get together. Enjoy life!

a reply to: penroc3

Don't put her on a pedestal.

She's just another person. Treat her that way.

a reply to: grey580

Exactly!

OP, like Grey said, she’s just a person.
With fears just like you.
Open up that God Dang FB msg and tell us what she said!

a reply to: penroc3

what is wrong with you ? if she is not interested in you just move on , you can not force any one to like you that is just the way things are .

I just got here. What's going on? What of the girl?

No good movies on tonight.

a reply to: penroc3

You probably should just not open it.

After all, if you can't even step up and do that part, perhaps she is the one dodging the bullet here.

a reply to: penroc3

It's been over four hours now.

I'm wondering if you are also afraid to come back to this thread.

What if someone wrote something mean?

Edit to add: Star & Flag

a reply to: penroc3

Penrock, you can’t tease us like this. We must know what she said!

a reply to: Lumenari

no i read what she said(it was nice) and i sent her a message back


EDIT:

it came 9in last night and i have spent hours mulling over this and it was j8ust a nice conversation, so i don't know what i was worried about.


i always think people are mad at me for something but that is never the case. That being said i don't do things behind my friends back its just my craziness

originally posted by: penroc3
so here's the gist" ... she responded to me but I'm nervous she turned me down and blew me off

im scared to see what she said.

So, what is she did. Does that define you as a person?

It shouldn't. It doesn't. Don't let it!