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originally posted by: FamCore
a reply to: ImmortalLegend527
I'd say, family is the people who you care about, and who care about you.
Anyone who will sacrifice their time and efforts to help you (and you would be willing to reciprocate it).
Not necessarily blood-related at all.
Some of my closest fam members aren't related to me, nor do they share the same beliefs as me. But we still love each other and are willing to go to battle for one another. That's how I would describe what "family" means to me anyway
I hope you find it for yourself
Can you go into details about 'Con'?
originally posted by: ancientthunder
family is a con, it is what the participants make it. a reply to: ImmortalLegend527
Everywhere heavy metal is played, I have family. Everywhere someone is shouting about the evils of capitalism and advocating for the rights of the voiceless, I have family. Everywhere someone is lonely, in need of someone to hold them up, when they cannot stand for themselves, I have family. I am blessed, because I have assembled around myself some of the most wonderful individuals it has ever been my pleasure to meet in person. And I am lucky because here on this site, there are so many wonderful people who are a part of my life and I consider to be as much family as anything else.
originally posted by: FamCore
a reply to: ImmortalLegend527
More reasons than one, it is a bit complicated to be honest. There was distance involved, both physically and emotionally, and feelings of resentment that either myself couldn't let go, or they couldn't let go.
I was also dealing with a substance abuse problem that almost ended me, and if you were to classify them, my family would be considered "conservative".
At the end of the day, sometimes blood-relatives are not the best family members (or the best support mechanisms)